Sometimes making lists can help when overwhelmed . Remind yourself that the move WILL happen and all this will pass . Soon you will be in your new home . For now pack whatever you can ,get rid of any stuff that you can ,tick things off your lists . I quite like this quote from http://lifeafterlondon.com/useful-information/lifestyle-articles/how-to-keep-calm-when-relocating/ "The ?secret? of calm relocation is self-esteem. Your ?old life? no matter whether you love it, hate it, or a bit of both, will, to a certain extent feel safe and familiar. Now, with only change ahead of you, it can potentially be difficult to maintain your self-esteem (a combination of self-confidence and self-worth) when very little is the staying the same." But ...it doesn't acknowledge the sheer hard work involved . I suspect the secret of calm relocation is an army of servants ! Breathe ,one day at a time . You're going to get there .