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Held my barbecue - as previously discussed. Neneh Cherry's ribs soaked in jack daniels and coke (or at least her recipe for them) went up in flames - they were probably about 90% proof - otherwise highly successful. One vegetarian turned up - and was delighted with his veggie burgers cooked on my George Fornby Grill (we did have another bbq on standby but it seemed like overkill for just one). Have spent all of today nibbling leftovers... sausage anyone?

http://www.southwark.gov.uk/YourCouncil/CommunityCouncilsSection1/Communityfund.html Just if anyone wants a peek.

Always fond of a luvvie fest... Snorky often makes me chuckle - I like a maverick. Sean MacGabhann always makes the effort to contribute to threads - a friendly, thoughtful voice always (oh and a Rufus Wainwright fan to boot). Dulwich Mum of course - our very own mascot And far too many names which crop up, making me smile, think, and wish I didn't have to get back to work.

Oh - Asset - I'm sorry I wasn't criticising at all; just asking a second opinion! I think I shall buy two normal permanent ones (one for veggies, one for meaties, and then maybe one disposable one too... 20 people didn't feel like a lot in my head, but if they are all hungry I could get savaged (though obviously not by the vegetarians)!

The BBC website recommend your method too Tillie... I shall consult with the chef,my fire-wielding hubby, but I think it is sound advice. As the guru of barbecues how do you cope with those veggies Tillie... in your opinion do I really need LOTS of barbecues ( as suggested by Asset - I thought I was pushing the boat out thinking of two?

So I am hosting a bbq. How do people cope with catering for both meat eaters and vegetarians? As in - do I need two barbecue kits? Or do you cook the vegetarian stuff first? Or should I get a rather swish bbq that has separate facilities (don't really want to do that as I don't plan on using it that often). I imagine this is a common issue. Don't want to ask the actual vegetarians themselves since I don't want them to feel as if they are a nuisance (they're not) but I want to get it right. And can anyone recommend a good bbq for catering for about 20 people? Many thanks BB

Administrator...With all due respect, the three lines in question when analysed (I am an English graduate you know) suggested that myself and the other guilty party S M, were in agreement over the said topic. We were in fact drawing our lines (made not necessarily of white stuff) of allegiance - indeed subsequent postings have referred to the said lines, proof that clear point of views were expressed. I do not expect a response to this post - wishing to leave the thread free for other opinions on White Stuff. Many thanks, (I am also an ex-catholic so respond well to figures of authority so please look upon me kindly Adminstrator)

Mr Administrator, Can I just say that occasionally the odd one liner really does not need to be reprimanded... if people are not allowed to develop a rapport and banter during debate then really, each thread will be very dull. I appreciate it must be quite difficult being omnipresent but even God had a sense of humour... how else would we explain the existence of jellyfish. ps. Just to stay "on topic" - White Stuff does a very nice line of motifs... including various sea creatures.

Hee hee - judging by the times and sentiments I think you were typing your message at the same time as me. What do they say Wise Minds think alike.... oh no, fools seldom differ...

I am really curious as to what exactly we would put in that location that would please everybody. We're not actually missing anything in Lordship Lane as far as I can see. We've got our butchers/ fishmongers/ gastro pubs - we have plenty of gift shops, a card shop, coffee shops, kitchen equipment shop, diy shop, stationers, supermarket, albeit Somerfields, ... if we agree empty shops are not useful, then come on guys - what do you want? Personally I think The White Stuff know their market pretty well if they have chosen to set up shop here. Their clothes are functional yet with a nod towards staying young (even if you are actually thirty/ forty-something). They are the sort of clothes worn by people who might consider themselves outdoorsy types but in reality probably define an outdoors trip as a stroll in Dulwich Woods followed by a latte on Lordship Lane. Personally occasionally I'd quite like to be able to buy a simple top locally (and yes I know there are other places that do that ... but those which are not vintage are actually quite expensive. Must we always complain?

> Anyway I?m more of a warm chicken salad in pita > man myself. Do you mean kebabs? Mmmm, chicken doner wraps from Kebab and Wine are rather good, particularly after an EDF gathering... I clearly bring such class to this forum!

Where's Olleys? I ask because, sadly, I do know exactly what you mean Mac16... although perhaps it's a good thing in the end to halt my ever-expanding waistline!

Just to add a thank you to Citizen Ed for Newman's Manners... I can be spotted reading it on the train each morning to London Bridge - and it makes the journey whizz by! It's completely different to my usual reading matter so actually I am rather pleased - I would never have chosen it, but so far so good!

La Trompette in Devonshire Place, Chiswick - a bit of a trek from ED but worth it.

I thought it was funny too... after all, many of the members (myself included) are actually invading se22...

So I'm having a little nose on the se5 forum and came across this brilliant post - all about our forum! I think we should arm ourselves with our four wheel buggies, pop on our gucci sunglasses for disguise and get ready for our invasion... http://www.se5forum.org/forum/index.php/topic,443.0.html

Just to say a huge thank you to Georgia for organising last night... I had an absolutely lovely time and it was great putting faces to names. However I think newbies should be supplied with large supplies of paracaetomal (sp?) for the next morning... my head hurts alot. Really, I am not usually that drunk. Honest.

Peckham Perkster...I'm a newbie here too, and I think I'm feeling brave enough... be nice to see someone else from Peckham Rye who has sneaked under the East Dulwich net!

Is anyone hoping to swap some books at the meet tomorrow? If you are I have copies of Lionel Shriver's Kevin and Augusten Burroughs Running with Scissors going spare. Don't need books in return... they just need good homes!

Am very excited - my copy of A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini (author of The Kite Runner) has just arrive. I shall keep you updated.

My husband says that be prefers Rankin's Snuff Fiction (and also says he thinks therefore he's right... says you'll understand). Can't do Rankin myself... I think it's a boy thing.

*floats in ..* *bumps mid-air into DM* *wishes warm congratualtions...* ****SPLAT*** *i appear to have landed on a sandcastle?*

Marks and Spencer Dark Chocolate and Ginger are the only way to go. But for proper research I suggest you visit http://www.nicecupofteaandasitdown.com/

Mmmm, maybe brave enough - perhaps if I spend the day drinking in "The Quiet Room" I will be in a suitable frame of mind. That's virtual drinking in this lounge by the way - for those of you not in the know - otherwise I sound as if I am an alcoholic in a padded cell.... well, actually...

Bump ... in case people think I am mad I bumped this as someone sent me a pm asking when it was - I'd mentioned it in another thread.