You're not close enough to get seen by Kings haematology? I love Dr Arya and Dr Patel, the consultants there, in fact the whole dept is lovely, and I say that as a hospital phobic. If I were you i would get a futon and just move in with her. But start adding some other sleep cues (lullaby on your phone, blankie, phrase like "roll over, snuggle down" and doing the pantley pull off with a view to night weaning.. make it less traumatic if you have to stop bf xx PS You can still start the night in the big bed with your partner!