Quia Differt

Administrator Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Quia Differt Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > > I used exactly the same E-Mail address on > returning > > Untruth . At the end of the day this is your Forum and you have taken on the , sometimes, thankless , task of being The Administrator but I have always used my name in any E-Mail so while, I empthasize I have no desire at all to labour the point and continue this dialogue, that can not be true. You are , genuinely, telling me I used another name ? That, simply, can not be true as I am the only one with access to any computer I own and that always been the case. Just to edit the above the only thing I can think of is that one was my full name with ".co.uk" after it and the current one has ".com". but that is not, presumably, what you meant as the name is exactly the same .

Administrator It's because in your previous incarnation as the skin-crawling misogynist casual-racist Tony London Suburbs you were banned for making the forum an unpleasant place to be. Now you've come back the admin team have allowed you a second chance because we're nice like that. In that case. Thank You. Don't worry I would not dream of being put on the defensive to justify my views based on living in London since The Mid-1950's because I have noticed that while people outside a Forum might enjoy a vigorous Debate on various contentious and unspoken issues I fully realise that The Lounge is not a place where people state their views unless they are going to be endorsed and supported whole-heartedly so I respect that.

edcam Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > LOL at Tony LS being caught out! Not really Sherlock. lol I used exactly the same E-Mail address on returning and if you read my posts I did not conceal where I lived or anything else .

cella Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > ....holes....digging.... If that was addressed to me though I have learnt ! I USED to think the three little words Women wanted to hear were " I Love You" but they are not. They, actually, ARE " You Are Right! "......my life is so much easier when I agree with everything my Female things say or do. Problem is I do this all too rarely. Summarised , admirably, by a Former Boyfriend of a long-term Ladyfriend who asked her, sweetly, " Am I allowed to disagree ? " lol

JohnL Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Aww feel a bit sad - never really felt any hate > from Louisa personally (I don't know what class I > am - I work, but I get paid OK to do it, but I > spend it irresponsibly) She hasn't actually gone though JohnL , I hope, has she ? It must be very difficult for Admin if they are in the individious situation of keeping the good Burghers of Dulwich happy though and if they receive complaints, may feel compelled to act on them. I, also, presumably, have been the victim of Admin receiving the equivalent of " Whispers in the Locker Room as I, also, have recently been confronted by " you do not have permission to post on this Forum" which refers to all Fora outside The Lounge though I ,genuinely, don't know why and, clearly, circa 2018 am not going to be given an explanation. This is the antithesis of the way I operate because I communicate and explain everything, however negative, to someone and directly, in real life, by phone or person, as well. No cowardly,weak or cold texts or E-Mails...

Louisa Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Once again, it appears admin has seen fit to > remove me permanently to ?The Lounge?. > > This time, no warning, no explanation, no > compassion. > > I have struggled my way through these past few > months trying my best to enhance discussion on > this forum. Encouraging debate on days when the > forum is almost completely abandoned by everyone. > I?ve managed to rip apart convention, heal wounds, > bring people together, and yes, at times be > somewhat controversial. I don?t apologise for > this. > > The price? Yet another working class voice > silenced in the name of middle ground dullness. > Controversy and bluntness shoved by the wayside, > in favour of quiet sameness. Dull and pointless > agreement. Is there any reason in me staying > around if I am confined to ?The Lounge? like a > criminal on tag? > > I sit here in the garden, in the sun, pondering > what I have done that is so bad as to be once more > imprisoned in this way, just for having opinions. > It?s not the drink talking, this is a genuinely > perplexed me wondering what I?ve done wrong. > > Have my forum days finally come to an end? Or > should I wait until the magic 10k and self > implode? > > Louisa. Just remember Louisa... And in the end The love you take Is equal to the love You make ..............Ringo and The Gang....

Alan Medic Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > What are UK values? In this age of Brexit I just > see a whole lot selfishness and idiocy. We don't have any in the same way as one of the Countries in The UK...that pesky England do not have any Culture to call theor own and preserve. Which is a shame because almost every other Nation on earth does have a Culture...

Have to say as someone who can be to the right of Genghis Khan, certainly Kubla Khan anyway that this is a fantastic story and has gone viral and the great news is he is assured of a place in the Country and has secured a job as a Fireman so well done Mamoudou Gassama :)

rendelharris Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I know but I can't say 'cos I'd be mansplaining! Young Man when will you realise, like most of us, that your place is in the wrong !

cella Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Maybe just accept different women want different > things without questioning it. I know every single time the exact way every single Female I know wants to be addressed and even, on introduction, every single Female I am about to meet...........all I do is look at my crystal ball it's 100% foolproof. Crystal Ball did let me down last week though.I had met a friend around 50 times previously at New Eltham and in a text she said meet me at Eltham station. I queried this and she got quite irate and in big capitals repeated ELTHAM adding if I had meany NEW ELTHAM I would have said so.....I should have known that THIS time, for the 1st time ever, she was arriving at a different station :)

The Bland leading The Bland :)

rendelharris Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Alan Medic Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > > > I was told (by a postgrad tutor who returned an > essay with every use of the word crossed out and > "woman" substituted) that "lady" implies certain > standards of behaviour - meekness, gentility, > decorum etc - that women don't necessarily want > imposed upon them, in a way that "gentleman" > doesn't, if that implies anything it just implies > one's a bit of a toff. After arguing about it for > half an hour I came to see her point of view, > though I still find it difficult in speech not to > say lady instead of woman, just a habit. Why is it then that I and , doubtless, a multitude of other Men have often had someone say to them, after a perceived good deed, " you are a Gentlemen ! "... Have they all been calling me a Toff all along ?

Robert Poste's Child Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > That sounds nice, Sue. Whereabouts did you go? > That reminds me I need to find a new group or > partner for walking. I'l walk with you RPC and we can discuss HonaloochieB's greatest comments on here ! I will have Max ( x 2 ) Buddy,Oscar,Honey,Oliver,Tilly,Nellie and Ells with me and all 9 Dogs have agreed to be Members of The HonaloochieB Appreciation Society that we could start the process of forming :) Whaddya reckon ?

Robert Poste's Child Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Any thread involving Honaloochie B, really. A Million % right. Easily, the wittiest and most consistently hilarious person on here over the last decade or so by a Country Mile. I would love to know him in real life as he was superb.

A 2 Billion Worldwide, not including me, admittedly, and all extolling the virtues of what a jolly good show The Brits can put on....that is NEVER going to go down well in these here parts "............:)

Louisa Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > The light at the end of this dark tunnel of > undemocratic monarchic rule for republicans, is > simply the fact Charles remains next in line to > the throne. And there?s no escaping that. > > Once the present Queen passes on, despite all the > clever marketing and supposed popularity > surrounding William and Harry, I cannot see how > Charles will maintain the levels of popularity > both his mother and sons have enjoyed, especially > in the last couple of decades. > > I still hold out hope we will get a referendum for > constitutional change at some stage. And let?s > face it, no better time than when Charles takes > over. > > Louisa. You may well change your view when you see the " Harry" chair now available for a limited time only at IKEA. ONLY ?35 smackerooneys !

rahrahrah Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Is there a wedding happening? YES rahrahrah I can NOT believe you haven't heard !!! How could you have missed the news ??? My Auntie Gertie is getting re-married to my Uncle Bertie again at Castle Howard in North Yorkshire at 3.00 pm. Don't Be Late !

Like 90% of Males I have met I HATE shopping with a vengeance. Know what you want. Go straight to it and get out in the quickest time possible is my aim but I LOVE IKEA. They are innovative, colourful and totally different. I find it an enjoyable experience. Not going soon though. Sorry.

Quia Differt Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > hammerman Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Ramon (Ray) Wilson, member of the 1966 World > Cup > > winning England team, who sadly died on Tuesday > > whilst suffering from Alzheimers Disease, aged > 83. > > Did not realise that. Amazed no-one has already > mentioned this World Cup winning English hero's > demise before now.... > > Sadly, Martin Peters,Nobby Stiles and Jimmy > Greaves are 3 members of that squad who are all > suffering with this too.... Actually Jimmy had a stroke and re-married the Lady who he, originally, married in 1958 !

hammerman Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Ramon (Ray) Wilson, member of the 1966 World Cup > winning England team, who sadly died on Tuesday > whilst suffering from Alzheimers Disease, aged 83. Did not realise that. Amazed no-one has already mentioned this World Cup winning English hero's demise before now.... Sadly, Martin Peters,Nobby Stiles and Jimmy Greaves are 3 members of that squad who are all suffering with this too....

Louisa Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I would recommend High Elms Country Park within > the M25 and near the village of Downe. Some > beautiful walks, always quiet, nice pubs for lunch > dotted around the area. Well worth a visit. > > Louisa. Seconded. Also Footscray Meadows,Sidcup. Voted " Best Country Park In London" recently or have a relaxing time in Whitstable ( The Final Frontier )...

Written in 1969 by Jimmy Perry, Co-Writer of Dads Army and Hi-De-Hi

Loz Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Quia Differt Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Question then rendel can you be sexist against > > both sexes as I went through various situations > > both praising and critising both Males and > Females > > ? > > Misandrist + Misogynist = Misanthrope? Or , maybe , I was just looking at each Subject I mentioned and saying what my life's experience showed me. Therefore in some respects in my 'umble opinion both genders deserve praise and criticism for different things, A quick synopsis of what you missed showed that you missed a Magnum Opus by me . I was criticizing your thought process whereby you were quick to say something was a load of xxxxxxxxx and yet appear to have a Zen-like calm over anybody undertaking you which is potentially life-threatening. I wondered, among other things, what Nietzsche's perspective would have been on your aggression and tranquillity. I also answered point-by-point in a decisive and unforgettable manner the points you raised but I damned if I can remember what I said now other than it was rather profound and, naturally, correct.... "Black Cab Driver ? I own 2 small/medium-sized Businesses and am not a Black Cab Driver though I did 2 years of Mini-Cabbing in a previous reincarnation. I was basing my view on thousands of my car journeys socially both as a driver and passenger.

rendelharris Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Quia Differt Wrote .and given the contentious part was against my OWN gender then > > are you saying you can be sexist about your own > > gender ?. > > Of course you can - Margaret Thatcher was a prime > example of a woman-hating woman who notoriously > didn't like promoting women - only one rose above > junior minister level in her whole tenure. The > definition of sexism is having a prejudice towards > or discriminating against a particular gender, it > doesn't say anything about having to be of the > opposite gender. I happen to know a person of > Asian heritage who is shockingly racist towards > other Asians. Odd, but it happens. Makes perfect sense rh. I have known more than a few Women who want as little to do as possible with their own gender. A good Ladyfriend who would be 62 now hated her All-Girls School. Had no interest whatsoever in "Girlie" things. Gained an excellent Degree in Civil Engineering at Imperial College and worked on Oil Rigs and the like all her life. A real grafter and she did all my Plumbing,Electrical Work, Roofing,Guttering,Carpentry , Decorating and so on but she had no time for other Females and had a distant relationship with her Mother who was a Bohemian idealist and Teacher. She was more pragmatic. Thinking about it she had the technique to knock down a solid 1930's Brick Wall where some men could not remove a single brick to convert 2 of my bedrooms into one and she was an exoert Fencer who insisted that every individual slat was an 1/8th higher than the one next to it and this involved 150 slats. Mind-blowing. Question then rendel can you be sexist against both sexes as I went through various situations both praising and critising both Males and Females ?

Robert Poste's Child Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > That and a heap of blind spot sexism. Views based on what I have seen virtually every week of every month of every year of every decade but no data no opinion, it seems...and given the contentious part was against my OWN gender then are you saying you can be sexist about your own gender ?.