MrsC you'll be fine. My husband couldn't really take time off due to his work commitments at the time although his parents stayed for about a fortnight. I was,in a way ,ready to be by myself. The old work routines of getting up, showering, clothes and make-up are gone for a good while. With hindsight spending time alone with your baby at home is very rewarding; but you must forget your former life, for a while. It's not dead and buried, just put on the back-burner. You will develop your own routine that suits you and your baby. As others have said there are plenty local meeting places for mothers and babies/toddlers. They'll be there when you're ready for them. Enjoy your time with your baby; you, your partner and new baby are all that matters for the while. The rest will folow.