redjam, We were really strict about this over the years as obviously it's frowned on by the schools, but don't forget their abscence rates are published and so can be an area in which the school is judged. So you can't really blame Heber. However with hindsight I'm not sure it is such a big deal. As you say, your child will have an opportunity to explore other lifestyles and perhaps language? But be honest with the school. It's not worth the guilt factor. And from what others have said, you won't be alone. Also flights even a day or so outside of the 'school hoiday' can be considerably cheaper with less time out of achool. My daughter's in year 11, totally different scenario for me!