Rosie I have been through this with both of my parents. Has dementia actually been diagnosed? If not, initially you should speak to your relative's GP - they wil probably suggest a joint visit so that they can then make a referral to a specialist. In my parents' cases, they were assessed at home in the first instance. Clearly, the earlier this can be done, and the particular form of dementia identified, the better for deciding on the most appropriate way to treat the condition. If there's anything specific you want to ask that I may be able to help with, let me know. Kevin