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Narnia

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And you need one? If you are gay i.e. homosexual why have an evening that excludes others? I'm new to this forum but I don't understand the need to exclude people from anything. I could suggest an evening of drinks for left handed ginger haired people with a twitch in their right eye and at least one wooden leg. But why would I do that? I don't know. As it's a 'gay' event then presumably it's because you want to meet other gays with the prospect of a relationship. Don't mean to be harsh but i don't get it. There must be gay forums i presume.
boosboss

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Declan Wrote:

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> And you need one? If you are gay i.e. homosexual

> why have an evening that excludes others? I'm new

> to this forum but I don't understand the need to

> exclude people from anything. I could suggest an

> evening of drinks for left handed ginger haired

> people with a twitch in their right eye and at

> least one wooden leg. But why would I do that? I

> don't know. As it's a 'gay' event then presumably

> it's because you want to meet other gays with the

> prospect of a relationship. Don't mean to be harsh

> but i don't get it. There must be gay forums i

> presume.


Declan, No-one is excluded with the obvious exception of homophobes! and only then because I'm sure most peoples idea of a pleasant evening having drinks with new friends wouldn't include trying to either defend themselves or swap pleasantries with a bigot.

Having a common interest isn't monopolised by gays when organising such events, single parents (Gingerbread), women (WI), men (lads night out) etc. None of which are generally intended for meeting prospective partners (within the group), that's not saying it couldn't happen.

I'll be going to have a laugh with a lesbian friend and my ever so heterosexual faghag, both of whom I've no intention of having a relationship with other than as friends (and bloody good ones at that).

Yes there are 'gay forums', but does that mean that gays should be restricted to those or that EDF should be for straights only ? Come along, have a laugh and if you can find a left handed ginger haired person with a twitch in their right eye and at least one wooden leg, bring them too. :)-D

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