Dedicated to lovers everywhere

[Scribe]

You'd probably have to make do with a silver medal in the backpedaling event, Brum.

[brum]

I instinctively back the underdog. Can't help myself.

That is until new evidence emerges which even I struggle to defend....!

[Annette Curtain]

> Of all the relationships and marriages I've had over my life

> so far, no one has touched me so deeply as you did.

Give me his phone number, he ain't seen nothing yet.

Nette.

:)

(td)

[*Bob*]

daizie Wrote:

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> Sounds like a drama queen who wants attention .

> Poor you louisiana.

Drama Queen, you say? At least he only posted it to one person.

[LadyDeliah]

He seems like he's totally up his own orifice and the shine may have come off his current relationship, so in pathetic self-pity he's trying to reconstruct what could have been with you but which he patently did/does not deserve.

[legalbeagle]

Ah bless. I'm feeling sorry for him again now.

Fickle, us girls.

Happy Valentines!

[Atticus]

Scribe, I was being sarcastic.

[louisiana]

*Bob*, we don't actually know how many lasses have/had been fed similar lines. If you're plate spinning to the extent of going out/on holiday/shacking up with various ladies A, B, C etc., presumably they each need to be fed a line of some sort. At one point, having dashed back from holiday with one such lady in order to locate me at a particular place, he did admit to me he hadn't told her what he was up to and said she would be angry if she knew, so presumably some not very frank line had been peddled there.

I just find it very odd that someone should come out with the kind of stuff written to person A while moving in with person B.

[DJKillaQueen]

Quite....something equally unfathomable happened to a friend of mine years ago. Her boyfriend propesed to her, and then two weeks later moved in with someone else. Some people I think, just crave attention without a thought for the feelings of the other person. It took her a long time to get over it.

[KidKruger]

I think some people need a Plan B (or C, D, etc) to accompany their main course, sort of a back-up. I guess that's an insecurity / attention-seeking problem.

I do not agree however with the automatic branding of a person as a failure if they've had 3x divorces. That's an ignorant generalisation. Seems like a self-satisfied know-it-all viewpoint.

[*Bob*]

louisiana Wrote:

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> I just find it very odd that someone should come

> out with the kind of stuff written to person A

> while moving in with person B.

Isn't person A posting a detailed private email from person B (who they are no longer in a relationship with) - onto a public forum, on the eve of Valentines Day.. also.. a bit odd?

Fun to read, of course. But for some reason I can't help thinking more about what is says about you for posting it than I am about him for writing it.

[HonaloochieB]

Well if you will get webbed up with David Brent...

[louisiana]

KidKruger Wrote:

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> I think some people need a Plan B (or C, D, etc)

> to accompany their main course, sort of a back-up.

> I guess that's an insecurity / attention-seeking

> problem.

I had myself reached the conclusion that there are some people who cannot be alone, at all. Period. I hadn't realised that.

>

> I do not agree however with the automatic branding

> of a person as a failure if they've had 3x

> divorces. That's an ignorant generalisation.

> Seems like a self-satisfied know-it-all viewpoint.

I agree. Which is why I gave him the benefit of the doubt over several years. The quality of the marriage is more indicative than the number, mebbee? (However, in hindsight, it did feel like a bit of a 'beware' that I hadn't given sufficient weight to.)

[DJKillaQueen]

All that three divorces means is three failed relationships. Some people marry whereas others just live together. I think that 'some people just can't ever be alone' is probably the truest observation. We all know people like that and they are also the people who easily jump ship when someone more appealing comes along. And I personally avoid them like the Plague.

[Annette Curtain]

In times like this I consult...

http://members.actionnet.com/~jeffress/Sack.gif the "bag of life"

one crinkle for yes , two for no.

If the handle drops off I move on.

It's never let me down.

N(!)

[Guest]

Poor you. Some people (male and female) are just in love with falling in love - with the heightened sense of themselves that it gives them. Think it's a kind of narcissism. I've learned to be suspicious of anyone who has a history of seamless or overlapping relationships.

[zeban]

Ms B Wrote:

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> Poor you. Some people (male and female) are just

> in love with falling in love - with the heightened

> sense of themselves that it gives them. Think it's

> a kind of narcissism. I've learned to be

> suspicious of anyone who has a history of seamless

> or overlapping relationships

Agree

[fyvum]

Soooo Louisiana, it sounds to me as if you were both in love with the same guy.............and he still is.

[legalbeagle]

Gone off him again now.

[Narnia]

legalbeagle Wrote:

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> Gone off him again now.

Typical. Huh!

[camberwell70]

Annette Curtain Wrote:

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> > Of all the relationships and marriages I've had

> over my life

> > so far, no one has touched me so deeply as you

> did.

>

> Give me his phone number, he ain't seen nothing

> yet.

> Nette.

>

> :)

> (td)

Are you related to Paula by any chance?

[Loz]

By 'eck you are fickle, legalbeagle.

[fyvum]

She can afford to be Loz, with half the fire service swooning at her feet.

[brum]

Half the fire service...?! No, just me. And 2 chickens and a dog.

[legalbeagle]

And swooning? I wish!!