Hi all

[KalamityKel]

I wouldn't want to lower my standards ;-)

[LizzygotDizzy]

I pm'd her and told her not to post publicly as you never know who could be reading it, I don't even really know anyone on here really myself. Shu.Kurimu I think everyone deals with their shit a different way, and although this is slightly out of the usual, you have no right slating someone for making the decision to deal with their shit the way they want to and see fit to, you had a choice not to read it if you do not wish to get involved in someone else's shit, but chose instead to post silly unhelpful and hurtful comments.

[lozzyloz]

I thought the administrator was our censor (if needed)? Davina sounds grown up and apart from a few idiots (which she'd easily deal with) I'm sure she'd get a lot of useful feedback if that's what Davina is looking for. She doesn't need our approval to post or not. Isn't that the spirit of the EDF?

[Muttley]

Zzzzzzzz.

[Scruffy Mummy]

Personally, if this is a geniune, then I think there are far, far, far better places to share your story - why not try a group for survivors of abuse? Honestly, I don't think publicly posting something on this forum that is very personal and fragile is a good idea. Plus, I hate to tell you this but there are some very sick people out there who read and use abuse stories as pornography. And doing a search, they can easily come across the forum as it really shows up well in the search engines. And I have to say I'm slightly suspcious that while you might be geninune, you might also be someone who writes this stuff for kicks. Nothing surprises me where the internet is concerned. Sorry if you are geninue but it's what I thought as soon as you posted.

[LizzygotDizzy]

Wow, that is a sick thought though scruffy, what a twisted world we live in, thats why I did actually advise her not to post publicly because you never know if someone out there might be getting kicks out of reading about it. I actually do believe her, and her reasons for needing to tell someone, she posted me and someone else her story privately and has, as you say now left the building. Very harrowing, but good luck to her, and I hope that by finally telling someone it will help her along her way. She won't be returning she said and if she is reading this, good luck to you girl, I know I could not ever be that strong not in a million years!

Liz

[Mark]

So come on then, tell us, we're all dying of anticip

ation

[Keef]

Innit you tease! Personally I think anyone should post what they want, for everyone who then has a go at them there will most likely be at least equal numbers who will quick up for them. That said, if it's as bad as all that, there are many many more appropriate places to turn to. Best of luck anyway.

[*Bob*]

What a load of of old bollocks.

[PeckhamRose]

OK damn I missed all the posts before they got edited.

Is Davina a plumber bloke called Eric testing out his female side on us?

I agree about the onion seller posting being more interesting.

Why was Shu shurruped for saying that?

Onwards.

[Cassius]

I PM'd Davina with a link to more relevant forum where I hope she can open up in a safer place. I think she edited her posts because she felt that she'd opened up too much here.

[mockney piers]

Good quality self-editing is a highly underrated skill on this forum. You go Britne... err, Davina.

[LizzygotDizzy]

AFH (Absolutely Fecking Hilarious!) Mockers, had me in stitches with that one! and it did lighten up the thread a bit too, a few of the posts were a bit on the mean side I thought.

[LostThePlot]

PeckhamRose Wrote:

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> Is Davina a plumber bloke called Eric testing out

> his female side on us?

>

OI!! I'm watching you and your snidey digs... ;-)

Can't a man have ONE Stopp in the Clockhouse with out being accused of being hormonal!

[KalamityKel]

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