All the single people in dulwich

[XxNikkixX]

Well that was not very clever was it u could of scarred him for life

[TillieTrotter]

Bell-end soup. Stick that in the recipe thread Bob.

[the-e-dealer]

Stick to Salad!

[Worker]

90% of men are scumbags.

No, they're not. If you can admit this, you're halfway through that haystack.

[the-e-dealer]

No they are not but there are some pretty nasty women out there too.

[TillieTrotter]

I agree, apart from my sons, my dad, my brother and most of my boy mates. Apart from them few exceptions, all men are scum.

[Jeremy]

I would extrapolate, and suggest that most people are scumbags.

[the-e-dealer]

I hate scumbags.

[woodrot]

Andrea Dworkin would love this thread

[JohnL]

If 90% of the people, men or women you meet are scumbags.

I'd say perhaps you hang around in the wrong places.

[XxNikkixX]

It's nothing to do with where u hang I have seen people and there relationships and how people are treated yh some women are just as bad men but coming out of a relationship which I was knocked about in I'm sure u can see we're in coming from and I'm not say all men are like that because there are some good ones

[the-e-dealer]

Its the self centered unfeeling un-empathetic women that p**s me off.

[KidKruger]

Most men don't abuse their partners and behave reasonably.

So how can most men be scumbags ?

Or is it most men you've experienced ?

[XxNikkixX]

I never said all men I been in a abusive cheating lieying relationships so its in my experience I'm not saying everyone is the same

[Salsaboy]

I'm here now.

[XxNikkixX]

And what do u propose salsaboy now that ur here

[csaddleton]

I'm 34, single, it's pretty bleak.

[*Bob*]

It was mulligatawny as well. Stained it yellow. Took weeks to come off.

[Help-Ma-Boab]

You sure thats not the Wotsits *Bob*

*Bob* Wrote:

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> It was mulligatawny as well. Stained it yellow.

> Took weeks to come off.

[red devil]

*Bob*, you do realise that the fishy smell emanating from your nether regions is nothing to do with the soup...

[Jah Lush]

I like being single and have been for two years now. I've gone solo for longer than that in the past and so it really doesn't bother me. I'm used to it. I'm comfortable in my own skin. I enjoy my solitude and my own company. I like my own space. I love the sense of irresponsibility it gives you. You get a great sense of freedom when you're unattached. You're free to do whatever you want with whoever and whenever you want and don't have to seek permission from your significant other to do so. You can be totally selfish and not feel guilty about it.

There have been many times when I've been in relationships and felt kind of trapped. I get to feeling claustrophobic and I want break out and be on my own again and I've had to end things. Sometimes I've regretted that and sometimes it's been a relief to get away.

I love women and really enjoy their company. I count myself very lucky to have so many of them as my mates. I just can't really see myself settling down with anyone in particular. It's never really happened for me in that respect. Maybe that's my tragedy... or maybe not.

[Fabricio the Guido]

Love is a revolutionary act. It attacks the ego and in its highest form, is transcendental. Jah is speaking his own truth but missing out on a fundamental aspect of what it means to be human. We are social animals. The closer the bonds, the more challenged we are in resisting the ego.

[Salsaboy]

Errr don't really know. What am I expected to do?

XxNikkixX Wrote:

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> And what do u propose salsaboy now that ur here

[XxNikkixX]

I dunno u said ur here now

[Jah Lush]

Fabricio the Guido Wrote:

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> Love is a revolutionary act. It attacks the ego

> and in its highest form, is transcendental. Jah is

> speaking his own truth but missing out on a

> fundamental aspect of what it means to be human.

> We are social animals. The closer the bonds, the

> more challenged we are in resisting the ego.

That's very profound. I wouldn't say I'm missing out though. Depends on how your wiring's programmed.