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I have smiled back at her!


Robert Poste's Child Wrote:

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> Mind you, after three days she's thinking, well, I

> smiled at him three mornings running and he hasn't

> responded, so I guess he's not interested.

>

> It's a psychic gift I have.

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Salsaboy, it's time to become Salsaman.


Smiling back isn't enough; you might just be being polite. You need to give her confidence that you want to talk. Say hi. Say 'lovely day again'. Say 'do you use the EDF by any chance' (because let's face it, that would do the job for you now).

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No wonder you can't remember the last time you had a shag!


Write your number on a piece of paper if you don't have a business card, give your number to her just before either you or she leaves the train and say that if she fancies going for a drink or food to give you a shout.


Easy :-)

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Sorry but grow some balls

You might die tomorrow

You are thinking about it too much

Zoom out and get some perspective

and realise how small and insignificant all of it is in the grand scheme of things

your a human and she is a human

and you have had enough years on this earth to simply greet a fellow person with a polite hi

whats the worst possible outcome? that she wont return the greeting?

even if the chances are small, saying something still gives a better chance that she will respond to you, than the zero percent chance if you keep quiet!

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