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Probably rational, actually.


Why oh why oh why have buses now got 60% of the luggage rack taken up by a free newspaper rack ?

(obviously it's for money, but...)

what's next ? vending machines instead in place of some of the seats ?

interesting that my annoyance at the fat woman on the train who refused to make space for anyone else caused such outrage.


It's a general commuter problem - people refusing to move in, make space, squash up.


She was particularly unsociable with it. Fact she was fat did not raise my annoyance levels but her behavior / intolerance did.


I'm not particularly 'sizeist' but her general manner of behavior was unattractive.

KidKruger Wrote:

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> The fool on the Denmark hill train to Victoria who

> replied, "why don't you get up earlier ?" when

> people trying to board the half-full train asked

> those already on board "could you move down the

> train please".


Ha! Possibly the same person who said to me earlier this year "some of us are going to work" when I squeezed onto that same train in the morning carrying my snooker cue - as it happened I was going to a meeting and planning to get a quick game in later, but I didn't feel they deserved an explanation!

Jah Lush Wrote:

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> Nostalgia freaks. People stuck in a time warp. The

> constant seeking of their lost youth. The sort of

> person who goes to 60s/70s/80/90s revival

> nights/weekends.


I remember when they used to drive me mad too... happy days...

Handles on doors, oh no you don't have to use them. Why not shove the door thing with your grubby paws, and watch over time as the handmarks build up.


And don't get me started on walls. My sons' mate walks up the stairs, trailing his hands grubby all over them.


*lays in darkened room*

Alan Medic Wrote:

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> This really does annoy me a lot. Filling in a

> paying in book for a bank with very few slips left

> in it. For a left handed person it is torture.


turn the book around, hold stub open with right hand, fill in upside down

That'll be life then.


lavender27 Wrote:

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> Whhen one doesnt know which way to go, and one

> makes a decision and ends up going the wrong way,

> and then one is up the khyber. (what a carry on)

I was rushed through the till in the supermarket yesterday and the cashier started serving the next customer before I had packed my shopping in the bags and she had given me the receipt, didn't offer to help me pack shopping and was very abrupt. Not going back there in a hurry. Reminded me of the days of "Victor Value". No polite customer service, just rude rude rude. (mind you, the man behind me was very handsome, she probably couldn't wait to serve him)

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