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Herne Tavern... don't take your kids


anoTher

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Nope. Kids are great. As long as they're well behaved when in public places (and especially in a pub environment.) Clearly yours weren't/aren't, so don't be surprised that most reasonable people would back the Herne Tavern here.


The "scant" information you mention is enough to make a call on this one. Sort your kids out or don't go to these places with them.


anoTher Wrote:

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> So what have we learnt from all of this. As OP let

> me summarise:

> It's had over a 1000 views.

> There are a number of people on this forum who,

> like The Herne despise kids/parents and don't

> think they should be allowed in pubs.

> There are a number of people who like to cast

> aspersions with scant information on other peoples

> parenting.

> And that, as was the original purpose of the post

> The Herne Tavern is not a place to take young

> children.

> Oh, and the EDF is rife with trolls -maybe you

> should all meet there, you deserve each other...

anoTher Wrote on 12 September 2015:

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> Oh dear me Grok, you are a very disillusioned

> person. I assume you live on MB and have young

> children? There is FYI no campaign outright for a

> barrier, simply a reduction in rat-running and

> speeding. If any of you could be bothered to

> communicate in a civil manner with those of us

> who've instigated the campaign you may begin to

> understand that we don't want a solution which

> will inconvenience surrounding areas, hence why

> many hours of doorstepping has been undertaken.

> Guys, it's not rocket science!


Hope this help your 2000 target.

AnoTher I applaud your sense of humour in face on people totally missing the point ! I was also there and was at the bar and heard the manager launch at your group ( of mainly women!)on your way out

Sometimes kids misbehave but not dealing with customers professionally, with understanding or with respect is a no no in my book

I think he bragged about his kid being in Oxford not Cambridge by the way ;-)

Given his comments I can only agree that it seems that families with young children are definitely not welcome, which as a father who might bring his young kid myself is curious but fine now at least thats clear. Also, i think the reaction of most of the usual punters above also shows its not exactly a welcoming environment for kids anyway ?!!!!

However,as other bars don't seem to have an issue at least there is lots of alternative choice so hopefully something for everyone :-)

I agree with the Herne Tavern on this. In my eyes pubs are adult priority areas. If kids are allowed to be in there then they should behave like adults or leave (ie sit down at a table and eat and drink rather than running around). Not saying the OP did this but I see to many parents letting their kids run rampage and somehow imposing their annoying kids on the public, and getting all highly strung when they are told off.


Now that I know HT has this policy I will seek refuge there!!

Agreed this isn't about the kids. Kids will be kids. Which kid wants to go sit in an adult environment, not move around, be quiet etc?


Nope, the park is for them- climbing frames, games and the freedom to play and make lots of noise.


I walked past the Herne on Saturday afternoon and considered going in but remembered past experiences of children and so avoided. I didn't realise the playground was no longer there or I would have been straight in.


Some parents have a sense of entitlement that their little darlings should be allowed to play wherever they like......or more that they fancy going to the pub and shouldn't feel discouraged because they have children in tow.


The Herne manager may have been stern in his approach but it seems to have worked.


I would therefore support the subject of this post "Herne Tavern......don't take your kids".

Agree with some of your comments binkyliliput but the manager was very rude actually and that's not right.

I totally get how kids running around can be a real annoyance for others but to be fair there was a playground in there! And I'm yet to find a playground where kids don't shout/ scream/ have fun! Maybe the group didn't realise it had gone - and I'm sure the kids must have been confused too- so they probably just ran around instead


I think the problem here is that maybe prior experiences or comments or extremes instances of behaviour have built up and the manager let loose on a Little group who were unfortunate enough to have their little darlings being a bit rowdy at that particular time. They didn't deserve to be spoken to like that and I'm sure the manager could have handled it much better by polite request,and I'm sure the parents would have responded appropriately and the issue would have been sorted.

binkylilyput Wrote:

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> Some parents have a sense of entitlement that

> their little darlings should be allowed to play

> wherever they like


I think you need to try and get a few more cliches in that sentence.

Smidgenpinks Wrote:

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> I say well done The Herne !! Pubs are places for

> adults to escape to. If I enter an establishment

> (restaurants included) where little Chlymdia &

> Little Uranus are bounding around noisily as if

> it's their playground - I leave. Lost trade. I

> don't understand why you would take children to a

> pub after school anyway?

Well said.

I gave up on The Herne because the garden used to be full of kids screetching and running around being ignored by their parents.

Its a shame its now getting a bit chilly to enjoy the new garden BUT I will defy go and check the place out again.

Also like other posters I find it a bit odd to take 5year olds in a pub after school when theres a lovely park just steps away-I would just get drinks from a supermarket and enjoy them in the park whilst watching the kids.

Happy Family wrote "Agree with some of your comments binkyliliput but the manager was very rude actually and that's not right"


Coco22 wrote " I was also there and was at the bar and heard the manager launch at your group ( of mainly women!)on your way out

Sometimes kids misbehave but not dealing with customers professionally, with understanding or with respect is a no no in my book"


Interestingly the only people who actually saw what occurred on Friday afternoon have come out in support - draw your own conclusions, sure you will...



(Thanks to Coco and Happy BTW)

Azira Wrote:

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> That's not quite true - someone else has suggested

> your progeny was damaging the garden.


Forgive us for taking our kids to a pub which up until very recently had a playground, a kids menu and separate gated section for kids, to give them their tea.


And if they're that precious about their new garden then why weren't we warned at the bar the playground wasn't there anymore so we then wouldn't have wasted our money.


But most importantly the aggresive verbal assault, which fortunately was witnessed and has been confirmed by a couple of people on this thread has no place in a pub at (4.30pm) which on it's very own website says "Children are welcome in the garden and dining area until 8pm."


Seriously if they over-react that much to 3 five year olds, I dread to think what they would they do with a group of drunk adults making too much noise!

JohnL Wrote:


> "We welcome well behaved children up until 8pm,

> after that it is grown up time!"


I guess this boils down to one's definition of "well behaved".


Now 3 five year olds playing in "quite possibly the largest garden in South East London (really?it?s huge)" and was virtually empty at the time doesn't IMHO constitute bad behaviour.

Funny you still haven't mentioned your kids were ripping the bush to pieces you seem to have forgotten that was the cause.





Happy Family wrote "Agree with some of your comments binkyliliput but the manager was very rude actually and that's not right"


Coco22 wrote " I was also there and was at the bar and heard the manager launch at your group ( of mainly women!)on your way out

Sometimes kids misbehave but not dealing with customers professionally, with understanding or with respect is a no no in my book"


Interestingly the only people who actually saw what occurred on Friday afternoon have come out in support - draw your own conclusions, sure you will...



(Thanks to Coco and Happy BTW)




Edited 1 time(s). Last edit was yesterday, 10:35pm by anoTher.

ydrmdy Wrote:

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> Funny you still haven't mentioned your kids were

> ripping the bush to pieces you seem to have

> forgotten that was the cause.


Never let the facts get in the way of a good story... ;)


Oh, and do you work for the Herne by any chance, or are you just one of their cronies who sits in the same seat every day propping up the bar?

anoTher Wrote:

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> Never let the facts get in the way of a good

> story... ;)


err does that mean your kids were wrecking their bushes?!? If so I definitely do not have any sympathy for you. If you were otherwise distracted whilst your kids were running around wrecking the place and were not under control then the manager had every right to flip. They are your responsibility and there should not be some sort of shared responsibility because you choose to take them out in public.


Then you try and besmirch their name on a public forum.

anoTher Wrote:

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> Chocoholic Wrote:

> --------------------------------------------------

> -----

> > And climbing the bushes. You keep calling it a

> > playground it is advertised as a pub garden not

> a

> > PLAYGROUND!!!!

>

> There was a "PLAYGROUND!!!!" last time we visited.



Just because something used to be something it does not mean that you still treat it like one when it is no longer. The Bishop used to have pool tables when it was the Foresters. It does not mean that i rock up with my pool cues and start firing balls into people!!

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