Buy a beautiful painting or antique or piece of jewellry that you will love and enjoy. Hopefully it will appreciate and you may find you don't need the dosh in a year. If you do, flog it.
"Nice" means discriminating and fastidious which all women are; which is why there are no nice men in ED! You sound like you are perfect toyboy material ED3. Shall we draw straws TT?
Can't possibly go to Boho Bar if that's the first song. Went to see Fat Larry's Band and Fat Larry was ill. Not quite the same. Still feeling the disappointment.