D'Oh! So close! In fact, closest yet! I must state it would be good if he were in his 60s or 70s (and thanks for pointing out the dodginess of the title), because she was in London in the war and in Brixton for 7 years after she got married before going to USA in early 70s I think, so some shared history time would be a good starting point of conversation. Haven't told her I am doing this, but I know her well enough to know she'd be delighted if the man were right (and I'm gonna meet any prospective folk myself first! I feel protective of her whilst she is in my home!), she'd have a lovely evening and so would he.