I understand that this forum is inclusive, but I don't understand where Monica is coming from at all. As Sean points out, most of what is written on this thread is supportive of Monica, but still she says that she feels intimidated by my support - I don't see it. When she thanks Mickmac for his support, she says "I hope your wife is ok with this comment". I thought that we were able to debate and chat openly on this forum. Monica will be slapping men with a fan next. This is all a bit Victorian. This thread started out by outlining the dangers of blind faith, and I completely agree. This forum is not a clique, I think that the day it becomes one, no-one will bother with it. We enjoy a lively debate.