I'm all for anything that diminishes religion's role in state affairs but if Catholics, Jews, Musilims etc want a religious wedding and funeral that's up to them. When I go I go - but I don't need any sort of umbrella "humanist" ceremony - I definitely wouldn't want my family to drag me back into some religious funeral, but so long as religion is out of it that's plenty. I don't see why non-religious people need to define themselves as "Humanist. You just don't believe in... well you know the arguments Come Christmas I won't be having a Humanist Christmas or even a non-Santa Christmas (what can I as a non-Santa believer define that as?) ... but I will enjoy the time off.