Is this really drawing room material? womanofdulwich - what is your point? is it beyond the ken of mere mortals that living in South London one's whole life isn't the sum total of everyone's ambition? That to see the vistas of China and India and Africa can cut through more emotional crap than years of living at home doing a dead end job? That to go and see these places costs money? ("where does the money go to???") Where do you f***ing think it goes to - air fares, accommodation, food, booze and drugs. Do you never do any of that "here"? Do you think your local grocers or supermarket isn't making money from you? Does your boss look at the wage bill and go "what do they need all this money for????" You quote 2k as the cost - how long is that for? If it's more than a month or two it sounds like good value in anyone's life to me