Brendan - between here and facebook you are on FIRE today! re: SteveT's points. yes it's all very well saying so many people were "happy" with holes in socks and trousers and all the rest of it (the reality is of course they weren't) but things are manageable when people are in things together. When the boat sails away leaving you on the island, there isn't any good in someone holding up a banner from the boat saying "What's the matter?? You were happy enough on the island before!!" Maybe charities should go to Haiti and instead of giving them food and shelter they should tell them off and say "I don't know what you are crying about - you should go to Somalia and see how they live!!"