Stop planning all the amazing last minute adventures and go out on your own, just the two of you. Stop being a partner, stop being a parent-to-be, stop being an employee. Don't talk about pregnancy or babies. Be yourselves and remember why you first loved each other and why you embarked on this incredible journey together. Remember that, after your beautiful baby arrives, you will both still be individuals who need to keep their identity and who need to be nurtured as just that. Remind yourselves that you are allowed to find this bewildering and exhausting and terrifying as well as fabulous and extraordinary and wonderful. And then get ready to love someone more than you ever thought possible. Bon chance. It's a fabulous journey.