James, I'm inclined to agree with almost all of the above, but what strikes me most is something that's been said before, which is that it isn't a compeitition. By that I don't mean that you necessarily regard it as such, just that sadly, in this world, there's room for bigotry of all persuasions. It can manifest itself in diverse and unexpected ways, and it seems that you have experienced more than your fair share of prejudice, for which I am sad. I am neither gay nor non-white, though I have witnessed at first hand the violence that homophobia and racism can bring about. I also have up close and very personal experience of violence against women, born of the notion that it is somehow acceptable. I don't want to derail your thread, rather to say that in many areas we think we've made strides, but ultimately some people are simply c**ts - whatever your point of difference they will find in that a reason for grievance. The hope is that increasingly, whatever the cause of bigotry, these people find themselves in the minority. And the majority don't remain silent.