Hi! I expressed for bsby no 4 for 6w as he couldn't latch (tongue tie) and it is incredibly hard, and gets harder as time goes by I think, it makes it hard to ever leave the house I had quite an active letdown with my first He would cough and splutter and pull away Experimenting with positions did help, I found lying on my side with him on a pillow worked quite well for a while, or we had a funny position where I sat up in a high backed chair and he sort of sat on my lap facing me Clare kedves, i am sure will have some tips Try not to despair, take it a day at a time It's very overwhelming when you feel that something is slipping through your fingers somehow and it will never be fixable but in my experience, motherhood is just the opposite and whenever a problem seems insurmountable, it has a habit of sorting itself out somehow, meaning all the worry was pointless