Agree with cuppa tea It passes, all too quickly it seems, when you look back, this early dependent phase Babies are designed to sleep lightly and wake slightly to check you are there and they are safe My tip would be to gently introduce other sleep associations (blanket, play african lullaby on iphone, in my case) and encourage "roll over snuggle down" verbal cue Although i cosleep, most of the time my baby will have a quick glug of milk or not even bother, but instead make himself comfortable with his blanket and roll back over and resettle himself. It's worth trying not to encourage an OVER reliance on night time milk as the sleep cue, but it's fine to use it as part of your armoury, along with shush pat and all the other methods. These days are very short days, when you look back. I promise you will miss those night time moments as you nod sleepily over that little bobbing head... you will miss it with a fierce yearning. I miss it already and mine is only 7m!