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rahrahrah Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > The whole system is too complicated and frankly, > then more complicated it is the more it tends to > advantage those with the resources to navigate > that complexity. Why not just have a simple system > of kids going to their closest / neighbourhood > school and then put all that wasted time and > energy into making each school the best it can > possibly be? Yay - this!!!!! Such a waste of time/money/energy. People with resources to move closer to a preferred school simply chucks some other poor sod's child out of the school's intake. Make it local and make it good! HP

Roy brooks also taking coats in till 22nd i think. HP

Metallic Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > hpsaucey Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Metallic Wrote: > > > -------------------------------------------------- > > > - > > > They asked for it not to be made public. > > > > > > > HP > > > > Ahhh Metallic. That was the email they tried to > > recall. Clearer generic southwark email dont > share > > on the resent email so i will remove although > > sounds like on twitter anyway. I cant delete > your > > post quoting it however so would be grateful > if > > you could. > > HP > > Well I did, but never mind > I bet it will have been forwarded loads of times > by the many they would have had to send out. > Hey ho! Lol... ta... Anyway good news! HP

Metallic Wrote: --------------------------------------------------- > They asked for it not to be made public. > HP Ahhh Metallic. That was the email they tried to recall. Clearer generic southwark email dont share on the resent email so i will remove although sounds like on twitter anyway. I cant delete your post quoting it however so would be grateful if you could. HP

Metallic Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > hpsaucey Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Substance of email: .... > They asked for it not to be made public. Didnt see that request on the email they sent me but will double check. I left off induvidual contact details.. HP

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turtle Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Couldn't Gethsemane have peed in the garden! xxx

FreyaMikaelson Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > hpsaucey Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > And the reference to adhd and autism frankly > > irrelevant, wrong and insulting. Hopefully > borne > > of ignorance... > > HP > > > No. The mere mention of ADHD & autism is insulting > to you, HP. Which is quite frankly ignorant. My > partner works with autistics for a living & the > connection between the way parents allow their > children to act & the behaviour of those with ADHD > & autism is definetly present. > > I am merely questioning if there is an increase in > East Dulwich of children with ADHD &/or autism or > if bad parenting is causing children to show the > same behavioural issues as that of people with > ADHD & autism. I'd like to know the statistics. > > rahrahah raises a question that I too am > interested in. > > If you don't understand, just say that. You don't > have to find yourself instantly offended by words > you don't like to hear. No, I understand perfectly, but as a parent of two children with ASD I do find the assumptions insulting. It doesn't match the behaviour of any fellow ASD parental friends at all or children, bearing in mind of course that what you have are individuals with ASD (suspected or perhaps diagnosed, but unlikely at such a young age) it doesn't define either the child or the parent.... Yes parents with ASD and ADHD children do often find themselves parenting in a different way. As Sue says its was the parents who did the standing and changing. But there are many other ways in which this could have been interpreted. You chose to pick ASD/ADHD and a certain type of parenting and I don't agree with your automatic link here. I'd be interested to hear what sorts of parenting you think lead to ASD and ADHD-type 'behaviour' whatever that means here and what your evidence is. I'm assuming you work with ASD children too or have hands-on experience in some way. HP

FreyaMikaelson Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Sue Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > FreyaMikaelson Wrote: > > > -------------------------------------------------- > > > ----- > > > I'm not even shocked anymore. I'm just > curious > > to > > > know how many of these kids have ADHD & > > autisim, > > > or if they're just being brought up to act > like > > > they do. > > > > > > But it was the parents who stood them on a > > reataurant table and changed their nappies. > > > > I can't see what ADHD or autism has to do with > it? > > > The way young children are acting in this area is > a reflection of parents like this is what I am > getting at. And the reference to adhd and autism frankly irrelevant, wrong and insulting. Hopefully borne of ignorance... HP

Signed petition and emailed. Hard to square the felling with the council's recent tree policy review and their declaration of a climate change emergency. HP

mancity68 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Ended up in fabulous fancy dress shop on Southwark > Park Road. Thanks all! Oooh - didn't know there was one there! Good to know...

Poundshops?? Sure ive bought some from one of tgem in years past.

Camberwell high road apparently a black spot. Also tube and buses at night - suppose people dosecandvthats when theyre attracted.... HP

Monkey Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Wow - Super impressed with Bromley. I think the > schools around here are badly behaved and refusing > to help the Council. Perhaps what?s needed is > action from us in terms of lobbying the heads. But > frankly, between the visits, reading of admission > policies, banding tests, making sure attendance at > banding tests has been recorded properly (long > story), general and specialist sports assessments > etc... I don't have time for anything else. Indeed > I could do with a quiet weekend not monopolised by > secondary schools. Agreed! And maybe back to days where you simply went to your loxal secondary ...

edbloke. Yes I know- the thread explains why it doesnt exist ... HP edbloke Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Hi HP > I?m really looking for a comprehensive set of > data, readily available for all, covering all > schools local to East Dulwich. This should exist > on Southwark?s schools admissions page. Not > piecemeal info buried in messages on a site like > EDF. > Again, unless I?ve missed something...

Hi edbloke, You'll find some of the answers in this existing thread if you've not already seen it: /forum/read.php?29,2011566,page=4 HP

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