FelicityNormal

Is it that easy to kick in a front door to a flat?

In this case, about 7 or 8 sides since there's more than one Lothario and more than one victim *Bob* Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Let's just say there are two sides to every story.

I doubt there *is* any PM (re Bob) Heidi.

The thing that is shocking me is that so far there are five or more different shops all with male staff women on here say have behaved inappropriately towards them

PM'd you charliecharlie Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Life threatening STD.... HIV? > or one of the curable STD's? > > If this is to do with someone who is HIV positive > then we are talking about a very serious matter, > even a criminal offence, though not sure here but > seem to remember that has been a court case (or > maybe there have been a few) where a man who was > HIV positive (who had intentional withheld the > information from a sexual partner) who had in turn > infected the woman... pretty certain he got a > prison sentence.

Hve PM'd you moving2dulwich Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I'm glad women are being warned about this man. He > comes over as nice but he is disgusting. He > believes all British women are whores and is very > forceful.

The dirty bastard might enjoy that! :)-DMikecg Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I tell you what, lynch the geezer at closing time, > and get medieval on his ass with a blow torch.

I am now considering approaching the police. No idea how seriously they will take it but the Lothario is still hassling me despite me repeatedly telling him never to contact me again. I think this thread may have angered him actually and that may be why he's suddenly hassling me again. Far from being out of order in starting this thread, I think I'm actually doing him a favour he doesn't deserve by not 'outing' his identity.

Someone also PM'd me to say that one of the Lotharios has been posting in this thread under an assumed ID and that this Lothario has been trying to pull her, via private messages. All very odd.

I was totally joking when I suggested it was ???? - I think it is obvious I was joking if you read what I wrote. ???? felt the need to send me angry, over the top private messages as a result! HeidiHi Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > ???? Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Well she was quite happy to suggest it was > > possibly me earlier, scroll up.......so > > discreation apart from people who aren't > anything > > to do her accusations...yup, that's integrity > > She just got excited because you was giving her a > bit of a tough time hence she said it was you > since you was giving her a hard time, I am sure > in hindsight she realised she should not have > jumped the gun. Gosh, I rarely post in the Lounge, > I should be in the family room not in here!

I don't see how this thread differs greatly to the Con Woman thread. Both parties are obtaining items through deception. The con woman is obtaining money via deception. The Lordship Lane Lothario is obtaining trust (and sex) through deception. The reason I did not post his name and the name of his business was because I felt that might cause legal issues. I have posted NOTHING that clearly identifies who he is. My reason for starting this thread was that I wanted to get an idea of the full extent of this individual's gross actions. I assumed that anyone reading this thread who has been duped by him would IMMEDIATELY know precisely who I was referring to. Instead, I got a lot of PMs from women who've had negative experiences not only with the Lothario I posted about but also with a few other local married Lotharios who have behaved in a disturbingly similar way.

heidihi, Well done for standing up for yourself. I've no idea why certain people here are pretending this stuff doesn't happen. HeidiHi Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > LegalEagle-ish Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > Yeh i agree, the 'exotic' men bit was a bit > wrong > > - I would have preferred a full description but > I > > think that was the best the poster could think > of > > to describe the guy as not a white guy I > reckon, > > after everyone started screaming libel at her. > > > > Bit of a crap description - but the guy's > > behaviour is still wrong and women should be > > warned, in my opinion. > > > They didn't scream libel at me because I didn't > start this post or encounter the guy with the STD. > I said 'exotic' because of all them despite not > being white still come from different countries so > I can't say Iranian, Indian, etc because I am not > sure exactly where they all come from but they are > not English. And if I get taken to court and you > all start screaming libel at me, bring it on! I > have facts and lots of women who have endured it > who can clarify it. At the end of the day I did > not start this post , I was talking about my > experiences in that there are a few businesses I > do avoid because of being hassled, that is my way > of dealing with it, I just don't go to the places > where they are. Full stop.

You're protesting quite a bit.... ???? Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > no I'm f*cking not and my wife post on here > too....seriously take your sh1tty, snidey > accusations and slurs away or spell something out. > Did this bloke turn you down or something?

???? - are you the guy we're talking about?

Judging from PMs I have received today, the leading married-shopkeeper-lothario has shagged 3 women on EDF and 2 others that I know in the neighbourhood who do not post on EDF. He has told each of these women that he is single and seeking a longterm relationship. For reasons as yet unknown (but soon to be uncovered, I am sure) he is very unwilling to wear condoms and has been known to remove a condom in the heat of passion.

In the course of him telling me how 'up for it' British women are Huguenot Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > How on earth did the conversation get around to > that?

Oh yeah. He told me I was gagging to 'hop on' to his cock. This was within 1 day of me first clapping eyes on him jaybee82 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > OK, seconded. Didnt realise people tried to 'wear > you down'...that does sound pretty cringe. I did > have a chinese woman ask me to marry her once (no > lie) which I thought was quite a nice gesture. > Happy to say she didnt try to force me.

Cassius Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > My family and friends would be considered > terribly middle class (books everywhere, maybe > even a piano or two) You what?

Fuschia Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > > arrived, too late. my son was in tears. > Why was your son crying? had you just smacked him one?

Hear, hear! Plus one of the married Lotharios in question is extremely crude and aggressive. When a woman says 'no' he interprets that as 'please screw me now.'

What is Biffy?jaybee82 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Are you biffy? Sorry I'm going to bite all over > this. So tell me, how would a bloke go about > getting your number? Sounds very tough indeed. > > What on earth is the world coming to?!

Jaybee, actually Snooze is spot-on.

Is it such a good call to have sex with someone you're unsure about - condom or no condom?

I'd imagine they don't have sex with him there and then on the shopfloor. But maybe some do, I don't know. Cassius Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Being chatted up and/or flirted with has not given > anyone a STD as far as I know. Do women have sex > with a man just because he smiles at her in a > shop? *sighs - wasn't like that when I was a gel*

One of the main Lotharios mentioned posts on EDF. And it has come to my attention that another of the Lotharios is posting in this very thread - but pretending to be someone other than himself.