Sido Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > hello ladymuck, > > thank you very much for your reply:)) > > when meeting up in groups i absolutely don?t mind > meeting men as well...i?m just worried to get > requests for dates, that?s actually all about > it:-$...i don?t know how it works here and maybe i > sound a little bit clumsy:-$ (as english is not my > first language) > > so i?m not against men :))...i?m just searching > for friends:)-D > > your edf sounds very interesting! so i should pop > over to see how it is... > > ...but i would still be interested in meeting > people face to face, having conversations, having > a coffee etc... > > i?m not so much a "big group" person and find it > more difficult in finding friends in big groups > but i will try as well. > > if there still is anyone who prefers to meet in > little groups as well, who loves art, culture, > conversations ect i would be very happy:)) > > thank your very much for reading! Just to reassure you...I'm not interested in dating men either (very happily married!)...and no-one at the drinks has ever approached me in that way...in fact the men have been pretty gallant and a pleasure to meet. I have also made some fabulous friends as a result of attending the drinks (both male and female)...so there you go...I don't think you would have anything to lose by attending. Oh, and you don't sound clumsy at all. Willkomm und bis spater denn!