Have you ever cheated on your partner (past/present)

[ST&NLY]

In my wild days of rock n roll drugged up sessions with bunking off during college/university days of smoking pot and drinking cider. I was in half hearted relationships, with women who I thought I had some kind of common ground with (making my excuses early here). During this time, I cheated on my gf during our 5 month relationship in my last year at college. I was caught out and felt the wrath of her and her friends disgust for me. 10 years later, I can't believe I did that but understand how it could happen. So, I am kind of glad I got it out of the way early, before entering an adult/serious relationship knowing full well, that cheating is wrong and for whatever reason I am tempted to cheat, I should end my current relationship before I embark onto a one night stand or an affair fling thing that you see on Eastenders.

Anways, I have techinally cheated and I guess I've done my time for that now. Have you ever cheated or are we all decent people on here who never been tempted? Bit of a sexy subject. Is cheating just a fact of life and people get on with it. Now days you have WAGS(or slags) who stay with their unfaithful partner and forgive (maybe not forget) but do forgive. Have you forgiven? Could you? I wasn't forgiven and too right, because the next girl I met in University was a hum-dinger.

[Mick Mac]

1 post and 82 reads tells its own story.

[ImpetuousVrouw]

I have never been faithful to any guy I've been with although I lasted 7 years before I cheated on my ex-husband.

I never lied about it though if that's any consolation!

[giggirl]

No, have never cheated. I've been on the receiving end though. More than enough heartache.

[PeckhamRose]

Do you not think our spouses read this when we are not looking?

Are you MAD?

[ImpetuousVrouw]

Lol!

My new Beau has had a full breifing and is convinced he's the man to make me change my wayward ways (plus he never goes on the internet!)

[*Bob*]

I was a complete slag throughout the University years.

It was great - and I can thoroughly recommend it to all school-leavers.

There's no need to make excuses for (nearly) everything you do when you're a teenager. 'I was a teenager' will suffice.

[Brendan]

Don't big it up. It doesn't count as cheating if you're under 25 and/or still a student.

[PeckhamRose]

Or just horny and someone's there for you..

[*Bob*]

You too then, Brendan?

[Brendan]

I wish.

[*Bob*]

Not even once?

[Brendan]

Nope. Not according to my rules.

[*Bob*]

ha ha

[Jah Lush]

Of course. I was a total tart when I was younger and I'm not much different now.

[Mick Mac]

Fewer opportunities though?

[Keef]

I don't do guilt very well, and would admit it within a week, and then be stabbed to death, so not really worth it for a quicky.

I was a fecking idiot at uni. Stayed with one girl for most of it, and turned down several chances to stray. She was mad jealous of any girl I spoke to. Not surprisingly, she ended up cheaing on me, and that sucked.

[Ladymuck]

Mick Mac Wrote:

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> Fewer opportunities though?

*in hysterics*

[*Bob*]

With half of all marriages doomed to failure, the years between 30 and 50 should be a cheating goldmine.

[Brendan]

Or vice versa

[*Bob*]

That's true.

There are no shortages, either way you look at it. Everyone's a winner..

[Ladymuck]

I've never cheated. Don't think I've ever been cheated on either. Does that make me a loser?

[ImpetuousVrouw]

My philosphy was always 'Do unto others, before they do unto you'!

But I think I may have to grow up a bit learn to trust a bit more. Having hair trigger nickers is possibly not conducive to a long lasting relationship.

[karter]

Ladymuck Wrote:

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> I've never cheated. Don't think I've ever been

> cheated on either. Does that make me a loser?

nope. this makes you a winner luv.

[karter]

Jah Lush Wrote:

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> Of course. I was a total tart when I was younger

> and I'm not much different now.

yes, seen you and your mates down the dog.:))