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Gimme Wrote:

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> Do single men eye 35 year old women with suspicion

> (i.e. "do you want a husband and children within 3

> years...")?

> Or are there lots of single men out there after 35

> year old women hoping to start families..?

> I'm not clear what the situation is - I have a 35

> year old, very eligible, tall attractive sister in

> law with a generous, funny personality, and

> struggle to understand why she isn't beating men

> off with a stick, but then I wonder if the

> 'biological clock' argument in mens heads puts

> them off. Any opinions???


I wouldn't say there's a one size fits all rule for what single men think. It's fair to say if a woman is into their 30's and beyond, and hasn't been married/had children, you'd presume that's something they'd be after a bit quicker than someone in their 20's etc.. But then to be fair, if a guy is in his 30's and hasn't been married/had kids, he's probably starting to think about that kind of thing anyway. I'm 30, and it's not something that would scare me off these days as it's basically what I'm looking for too, but then I'm sure there are guys my age and older who aren't quite ready for that stuff yet.

Gimme Wrote:

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> Do single men eye 35 year old women with suspicion

> (i.e. "do you want a husband and children within 3

> years...")?


Yes we do :-)


But then they are probably viewing us with suspicion also.

(i.e. "is he just another commitment phobic time waster...")

Good grief, this thread has taken a funny turn. I know a few 35+ women who would like to meet someone but aren't looking for a husband, children or 'commitment'. I know a few 35+ men who are desperate for a wife, children and er, 'commitment'.


They don't live in ED though ;-)

Carter Wrote:

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> OK, so I am 38, 6 ft 1, dark hair , blue eyes. I

> choose not to plaster my personal or professional

> life all over FaceShite, MyCrap, or SpammedIn.

>

> What do I do?

>

> *edit* Because, yerknow, some people like privacy.



If you like privacy think the concecuences don't intimidate women with devices or harass them how many people in the area do you think will agree in keeping chickens in the area will see.

Arsenal are heading for the drop at this rate (maybe not, but I can't remember them having a start this bad for years).


My Toffee Boys had a great result today against Wigan...3-1 and Millwall only managed a draw against West Ham. Better than a loss I guess.

Wow that bad.


The atmosphere was good as always at the Den (and there was no trouble like two years ago). I thought Millwall played really well in the first half but tailed off in the middle of the second of course. 7 points from 7 games though is a bit disappointing......it was the first points West Ham have dropped so far.

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