What to do.

['bout now]

Thanks all for sharing your collective wisdom and experiences. I have made a plan, concocted from what I have read and using a little of my own instinct. I'll let you know how it all plays out.

You're a top bunch, don't let anyone say it isn't so!

[Friends of Goodrich]

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[Friends of Goodrich]

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[Mick Mac]

Not so much what to do next, but it seems to me that your Mother, understanding the very difficult circumstances you were experiencing in your marriage, wanted to show you that she too had to be strong in her life and had experienced great personal difficulties.

I think she was telling you that you and her came from strong stock and that you too would work through your difficulties, as she had to early in her life.

I'd endorse what legalbeagle said. Good luck with your search. [i hope your new sister likes you....]

[Mick Mac]

Not so much what to do next, but it seems to me that your Mother, understanding the very difficult circumstances you were experiencing in your marriage, wanted to show you that she too had to be strong in her life and had experienced great personal difficulties.

I think she was telling you that you and her came from strong stock and that you too would work through your difficulties, as she had to early in her life.

I'd endorse what legalbeagle said. Good luck with your search. [i hope your new sister likes you....]

[Huguenot]

So your sister would be a Kiwi then? Now that's a heavy burden to bear.... ;-)

[Huguenot]

So your sister would be a Kiwi then? Now that's a heavy burden to bear.... ;-)

[Santerme]

Go with what you instinctively feel to be right

In is amazing how often going with the 'gut feeling' is best

I sincerely hope it all works out you

[Santerme]

Go with what you instinctively feel to be right

In is amazing how often going with the 'gut feeling' is best

I sincerely hope it all works out you

[dulwichmum]

I agree with Huguenot, New Zealanders are renowned for their profuse and unruley pubic hair. I once had a flat mate from Christchurch who had a bikini line from her nipples to her knees. Think carefully sweetie...

[Mick Mac]

I agree with Huguenot, New Zealanders are renowned for their profuse and unruley pubic hair. I once had a flat mate from Christchurch who had a bikin line from her nipples to her knees. Think carefully sweetie...

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Dulwichmum

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It's his sister DM. I don't think he'll be going there....

['bout now]

I agree with Huguenot, New Zealanders are renowned for their profuse and unruley pubic hair. I once had a flat mate from Christchurch who had a bikin line from her nipples to her knees. Think carefully sweetie...

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Oh I won't worry, I quite like Rugby.

[Narnia]

Dear DM........I'm getting soft. I was going to PM you on how nice a message you previously posted..........so un DMish, if you know what I mean.Then you introduce pubic hair into the discussion. I once experienced a shock of your proportions in the pool at Crystal Palace when I used take my baby boy there for swimming/splashing lessions.As much of a shock as that might have been (I was the only adult male there) I wouldn't have felt the need to share it without you having brought up the subject. Can you stick to the topic in future please?

[Mick Mac]

Oh dear. This could get messy.

[????]

What's a flat mate?

['bout now]

I hope not, I thought it was funny.

[woofmarkthedog]

Mick Mac Wrote:

> It's his sister DM. I don't think he'll be going

> there....

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Well there is some rather contrary research & it's not to far off your post Mic mac

http://library.digiguide.com/lib/uk-tv-highlight/Brothers+and+Sisters+in+Love-3855/Documentary/

W**F

[Mick Mac]

Well, Wolf. I have never fancied my sister. She was a right bossy cow.

I guess though if I just met her now I would not know she had been a right bossy cow for 30 years....

[woofmarkthedog]

Mick Mac Wrote:

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> Well, Wolf. I have never fancied my sister. She

> was a right bossy cow.

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> I guess though if I just met her now I would not

> know she had been a right bossy cow for 30

> years....

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STOP Mic, beer involved, been on the lash

Blimey, he's actually started ....y'know...Ermm

W**F

[dulwichmum]

Declan dear heart, was the female swimmer from New Zealand? Or was she German? Although German's seem to wear underarm hair as a badge of pride, more so than the entire bikini paragraph thing. I had to say it, you know it is true, just like the fact that men from Canada all wear enormous Y fronts and all Italian men have genital herpes.

I am not being racialist, I am just stating facts.

You don't think that writing for the Daily Mail is starting to effect my personality do you?

[Narnia]

No idea if she was from NZ, DM. However she was exposing more hair than I have on my chest (and I don't mean what was on her head). I wouldn't hazard a guess if you have suffered a change of personality due to writing for the Daily Mail. I imagine though one would have to read it for that to happen. What do you think?

[dulwichmum]

Indeed Declan, you are probably right. I never, ever read anything I write (stomps foot).

['bout now]

An update

After taking on the kind words and advice offered here, I did what I'm really good at. I hid under my shell and pretended it will all go away.

Until last week( and on the 6th anniversary of my Mother's passing!) and due to my Uncles unique surname a lady, my Sister got in touch. She's 60 living in Queensland and err... she's my Sister.

Mind blown, thanks everyone.

[Ann]

Good luck 'bout now. I hope your new relationship turns out well and thanks for updating.

[red devil]

Nice one 'bn, love a happy ending...