So here are my thoughts on this:     Every road user should do what they can to reduce the likelihood of an accident occurring and at night, this includes having lights    Cycling is not generally a dangerous activity, in fact it will probably increase your life, not shorten it, but like anything it is not risk free.     This is not a 'them and us' thing. Most cyclist are also car drivers and vice versa. We all need to look out for each other.    That said, I can understand the defensiveness some cyclist display in the face of criticism (and fall foul of it myself sometimes). There is a lot of unjustified vitriol targeted towards cyclists. There is a general narrative in the media of 'irresponsible cyclists' and a really distasteful amount of victim blaming which occurs when cyclists are involved in accidents. In this context it is easy to develop a chip on ones shoulder.    Fundamentally none of this changes point 1.