I agree with Loz. I think there are different types of rape, and different types of rapist. And no, I AM NOT SAYING THAT ONE IS WORSE THAN ANOTHER!!! I'm sure there are rapists who just do it for the feeling of power, but equally, I am sure that some men think a lady might be in to them, and they can't take no for an answer, and they cross a line, and then things get very very nasty. I don't think in those cases it's all about the power. Then there are blokes who spike drinks. I suspect they are in it for sex rather than power. This is all just my thoughts, and not really based on anything I've read, so it may well be total bollocks.