F*ck me I can't ever remember this bothering me in the slightest for the vast majority of my years when I, like everyone who is a parent, was infact childess too, I suggest those few without young babies and toddlers for whom this seems to be such a big thing 'get a life' as i think the phrase goes, something they are lucky enough to be able to have the time and energy to do if my memory of 90% of my life is not completley scrambled