DaveR Wrote:  -------------------------------------------------------  > Q: "How are you?"  >   > SAMPLE HONEST ANSWER "I'm really down, and not  > sure about the direction my life is taking.  I'm  > not sure about my relationship...  >   > APPROPRIATE/EXPECTED ANSWER:  "Oh, fine really,  > mustn't grumble, you know...."    I know this happens a great deal, but why feign interest in someone's well being when in truth you couldn't give a toss?  Seems a waste of breath to me.  Why not instead ask them something that actually interests you?  In countries like Holland, Spain, and Portugal - for example - my experience of someone enquiring "how are you" is that they genuinely wish to know how you are.