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katie1997 Wrote:

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> so just throwing this out here...what would you do

> (ladies) if you discovered that your new boss was

> a 'starer' even when the top is not low cut? Is

> the solution to wear a really low-cut top as they

> might try better to avoid looking?

>

> or maybe not?


Dear Katie 1997,


I am sure that the feminists on this thread will start throwing bricks at me. I am not a female as you may have guessed. But, if I were you, I would try an experiment. I would first wear tops that reveal nothing at all (i.e. no cleavage at all showing) and see whether he stops staring. If he does stop staring, I would approach him and ask him if your dress code makes him feel uncomfortable because you notice that he tends to stare when you wear tops that are slightly lower cut. This I would do at maybe a social event where everyone is a bit more relaxed.


If he is what I call an "eye-dropper", it may be that he is gawping without even thinking about it.


Best of luck.

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