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You should dump someone at least once in your life Katie....it's very empowering....makes you feel for a few moments that you are in control of your life and emotions


Empowering? Really?? I always came away feeling like I was a complete bastard, even though I was generally doing the right thing and calling a halt to something that was absolutely doomed anyway.

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What Loz said. Dumping someone is never easy and can sometimes be quite painful and embarrassing. In the past I have often become very unreliable in a relationship that clearly wasn't working so that eventually they dump me. It's a lot easier that way and they may feel they've got one over you. But they haven't. But only you know that.
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Unreliability can be hurtful too but it does kind of give clues. If a relationship is right then it's easy. Too many people hang on in relationships that are going nowhere or doomed and then wonder why they get dumped. You just have to be honest with yourself and never think you can't feel that way about someone else.
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Brendan Wrote:

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> Funny you should say that as I was actually once

> dumped by Matt Dillon in a freak turn of events

> inexplicably involving Eddie Izzard.

>

> And an alarm clock.


Oh that's where it went. Can I have my alarm clock back now please?

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I was once dumped for turning 30. By a fellow I didn't realize I was dating. He said it was moving too fast, and that my ticking biological clock was now a gong. He was scared that we would be shopping for furniture soon.


He ended by saying "It's not you, it's me".


Uh, thanks for clearing that up, freak!


He then married and knocked up the next girl he dated within the year.

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legalbeagle Wrote:

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> Well it could have been worse. She could have

> quoted Bono: "A woman needs a man like a fish

> needs a bicycle".

>

> Count yourself lucky.

>

> (And before anyone says it, I know that was

> originally Irina Dunn, not Bono, but I was just

> trying to keep the popstar continuity going....)


Also Tom Robinson who I believe was quoting a T-shirt.

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