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TillieTrotter Wrote:

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> Mine is to NEVER lend money to friends again. The

> old adage never a lender or a borrower be is a

> tried and tested one and I shall stick to it

> firmly.



I think thats a good rule to live by. I always say when it comes to money there is family and there is business, there is no such thing as friends.

I don't drink on a school night, it's way easier than the whole GIVING UP malarky.


Certainly made the weekend more fun. Oh, and then I knocked Sunday drinking at home on the head.


Which leaves Saturday as yeahhhh-have another-one-nite. Plus I tend to buy a much better quality wine for that.


I think if you do really have something to give up, then dissemble it into smaller parts and deal with those. But if there's booze, drugs issues then seek professional help elsewhere. Google the Quantum Project in Lewisham if you're need.


Not sure about the whole January thing tho, seems a bit Catholic to me.

Annette Curtain Wrote:

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> I don't drink on a school night, it's way easier

> than the whole GIVING UP malarky.

>

> Certainly made the weekend more fun. Oh, and then

> I knocked Sunday drinking at home on the head.

>

> Which leaves Saturday as yeahhhh-have

> another-one-nite. Plus I tend to buy a much better

> quality wine for that.

>

> I think if you do really have something to give

> up, then dissemble it into smaller parts and deal

> with those. But if there's booze, drugs issues

> then seek professional help elsewhere. Google the

> Quantum Project in Lewisham if you're need.

>

> Not sure about the whole January thing tho, seems

> a bit Catholic to me.



Great post. And great advice

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