daizie Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 I have just witnessed a middle class family, lose their temper with a three year old, in front of the general public, and slap their child round the back of the legs ! I really didnt think that happened here! I am shocked . Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/ Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony.London Suburbs Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 dulwichmum has smacked her child in Public!Should, in turn, warrant Disciplinary Action from The Administrator. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218315 Share on other sites More sharing options...
???? Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 desperate, 2/10, see me after for the cane Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218322 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andystar Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 OMG, quick, call Crimewatch... Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218325 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annasfield Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 You are just taking the piss with this thread aren't you? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218329 Share on other sites More sharing options...
daizie Posted June 28, 2009 Author Share Posted June 28, 2009 No I am not, I am genuinely suprised/shocked. I assumed they would have had more self control, I dont know why . Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218330 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chick Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 How do you know it was "a middle class family"? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218337 Share on other sites More sharing options...
RosieH Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 There are canings on offer??Marvellous. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218340 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eliza.D Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 We know we shouldn't hit our children but she probably regretted it the moment she had done it. Don't judge her too harshly. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218342 Share on other sites More sharing options...
TillieTrotter Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Have you got children Daizie? I suspect not and although I CERTAINLY DON'T advocate smacking kids, until you're a parent you really have no idea. And the middle class bit is pure w*nk. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218343 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narnia Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Do you know WHY the child was slapped? I would slap my child if I thought it would teach them an important lesson. Rather that than they put their hand in the fire to see how hot it was. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218347 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mick Mac Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 im with daizie. Dont agree with it under any circumstances. And i do have children. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218348 Share on other sites More sharing options...
???? Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Reel in them fishies Daizie Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218350 Share on other sites More sharing options...
daizie Posted June 28, 2009 Author Share Posted June 28, 2009 it was only an observation and i was bored, but, i know of them, live on the same road, and going on the conversations, they seem to think they are more clever than any one else, hehehee, i just find it quite entertaining to see the 'social veneer' slip, hehehee, ok i know its a bit wicked, but, why is it funny when serious people lose their temper? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218355 Share on other sites More sharing options...
TillieTrotter Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Yeah, silly serious me....two glasses of red and I'm easy (in the reeling in sense of the word). Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218361 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Narnia Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Mick Mac Wrote:-------------------------------------------------------> im with daizie. Dont agree with it under any> circumstances. And i do have children.Mick, my time of ever slapping a child has long gone. He's now 18 and could slap me harder if necessary. However there have been a few times in the past when I'm sure I slapped him. I would make a distinction between losing the plot and teaching a lesson. The former is not acceptable but the latter has sometimes been required. Given his current age and disposition I don't think he has been harmed. Children test the boundaries by being naughty. They need to know where they are to feel secure. This probably belongs on another thread, but if I was ever to quote something he said in his youth it would be the phonecall I took at 3pm on cup final day when ManU played Millwall. He had gone to the park with a few friends who were confronted by a gang of youths. One of the friends had his Ipod stolen. My son in their retreat hid his mobile in the grass so it wouldn't be taken. The phone rang.........'Dad, there's no need to worry but.........I'm in the back of a police van.' He was taken to the station to give a statement as the gang were caught by a phonecall made to the police by one of the girls he was with. Mick, if can get through their childhoods without ever slapping them (or your partner) then you must be congratulated. As for Daizie starting the thread due to boredom.......haven't you found a boyfriend yet to occupy you? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218362 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annasfield Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 When I was a child there was nothing that I feared more than being told off by mother. Therefore I generally behaved. I was smacked as child (not regularly as I soon learnt my lesson) and don't blame my Mum for using that form of discipline. A child being slapped/smacked is quite different to being hit. Parents have the right to discipline (within boundaries) their children as they see fit. As s child I honestly believe that the respect I had for my parents certainly helped to quickly learn between right and wrong. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218365 Share on other sites More sharing options...
LegalEagle-ish Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 I favour a hard flick on the ear to bring my kids into line - no embarrasing loss of control and it stings like hell, plus it gives them enough shock to snap them out of their naughty-whatever-they-were-doing to deserve the flick on the ear behaviour. If that fails then a sharp slap on the legs is sometimes nessesary as a last resort accompanied with loud fierce, 'NO' or 'STOP THAT' with or without 'you little shit', hissed between clenched teeth. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218368 Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony.London Suburbs Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Any update on this daizie.Any more sightings of this Family? Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218432 Share on other sites More sharing options...
???? Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 They spoke dead posh and drunk their tea out of china cups doncha know Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218443 Share on other sites More sharing options...
daizie Posted June 28, 2009 Author Share Posted June 28, 2009 lol, no, they are best avoided . I will carry on peeping from behind the blinds.. and let you know as and when their true colours emerge ..i am not fooled by the posh voices see... Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218445 Share on other sites More sharing options...
davy watts Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 If Daizie's got a big bum she need be single no longer. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218485 Share on other sites More sharing options...
daizie Posted June 28, 2009 Author Share Posted June 28, 2009 ive got a small to average bum davy, a big brain though Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218486 Share on other sites More sharing options...
davy watts Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 I can work with that. As long as you're not too clever. Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218488 Share on other sites More sharing options...
daizie Posted June 28, 2009 Author Share Posted June 28, 2009 too clever for you . your on the wrong thread . Link to comment https://www.eastdulwichforum.co.uk/topic/6820-a-dulwich-mum-slaps-her-child/#findComment-218489 Share on other sites More sharing options...
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