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Alfie - the CPT was my forst forum drinks (2 and a half years ago? Is that right??? Wow) and I had all the same worries


You'll probably just know when you see them but have a look at pictures from previous meetings


Feb and March links here


I don't think I can make this one tho

I'm being genuinely serious here and please don't take any offense. I've been to two forum drinks and they were cool but I'd get very uncomfortable and perhaps angry if someone I'd just met or didn't know started taking pictures of me without asking.


I only say this because judging by the angle of some of the photo's some of the subjects appear that they aren't aware they're being photographed.

Yep, can't say I'm happy with a single photo of me in any of the sets. And that's not outoffocus' fault. But they are what they are


but if people don't want their pics up that's cool too. Easily arranged. But I know some people like to have a look see before attending for the first time so it seems only fair

"That fragile ego/vanity of yours again..."


Sort of, but I just don't want a repeat of last time when you came dressed in exactly the same clothes as me along with the same trainers (bought that day) and the same aftershave. We're lucky I didn't leave with your family Quids.

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