Single men in East D?

[karter]

Not sure that's enough quids, maybe they are

a/ too good looking

b/ too busy working on career and funds

c/ busy travelling and exploring the world

expand your minds you two boys.

[HonaloochieB]

Ted Max Wrote:

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> So, two of the single men on this thread so far

> are called skidmarks and DirtyBox?

>

> Ponders...

I've pondered too TM, not for long though, it's not me really.

I reckon who we have here are none other than Richard Jobson and Jay Strongman.

Jobbo singer in The Skids and Strongo DJ at The Dirtbox and many other clubs, singer in The El Trains and coworker with me in a couple of Oxford Street menswear shops.

It's obvious the pair of them are in the mood for some suburban chicks.

[????]

Ahh, I remeber some of the original Dirtboxes 1984/5...no jokes plaese folks

[woofmarkthedog]

???? Wrote:

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> Ahh, I remeber some of the original Dirtboxes

> 1984/5...no jokes plaese folks

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God I used to go there, Phil Dirtbox up stairs on charring cross rd.

Bloody marv.

[daizie]

emc Wrote:

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> no shortage of men

> desperate to chat you up but just not the sort of

> men I'm interested in...maybe you're right, ED is

> not the place.....just can't be bothered to go

> anywhere else but need to change that - just not

> sure where to go!

Same here . Where ever it is remains a mystery. None of my single friends know either .

[monica]

Single men if you are up for a guaranteed one night stand then go to Camberwell, its full of desirable young women looking for a catch just like you, the desirables are normally in the silver Buckle or outside the kebab shop at 2am.;-)

[woofmarkthedog]

Oh nice.

[Mick Mac]

monica Wrote:

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> Single men if you are up for a guaranteed one

> night stand then go to Camberwell, its full of

> desirable young women looking for a catch just

> like you, the desirables are normally in the

> silver Buckle or outside the kebab shop at 2am.;-)

My firend did that and now he's married to a 24 year old Peruvian girl 20 years his junior. I enjoyed the wedding though.

[????]

Silver Buckle's been closed a few months

[RosieH]

I've heard tell of single men in ED, but I've never actually seen one.*

On re-reading above thread, discovered that I have actually seen one and am surprised.

[DirtyBox]

The last time I went out in Camberwell I nearly got into a fight with a man/she-male (couldn't really tell due to the 'lived in' look). At least ED is a bit calmer..

[????]

I've redefined my faults on a 35 single straight bloke..one of the follwing:

Mad

Bad

Sad

or a dad

[Peckwich]

Don't forget cad and had (although same thing).

[????]

good additions

[red devil]

Lad...as in ''I'm going out wiv the laaaaads''

[LegalEagle-ish]

No decent single 30-40 yr old men in ED. I've already checked. You need to start paying for it hunny!

[daizie]

Its just not there. Anywhere . I have five single girl friends ages 38-44, all different, attractive, aproachable, interesting, not too annoying or irritating. There is nothing wrong with any of them. They try everything they can to meet decent men, they are always out and joined to all kinds of clubs. They are not too picky nor will they just settle for anything to avoid being on their own. In my opinion, meeting the right one is more down to luck than judgement .

[dbboy]

Please can you define what you mean by "decent" in relation to men in ED

[LegalEagle-ish]

No addictions, own teeth, no beer belly, wash regularly and no psychotic illnesses.

Having a job is a positive too.

[dbboy]

No addictions (tick), own teeth (tick), no beer belly (belly), wash regularly (tick) and no psychotic illnesses (tick), employed as well, single and looking.

[daizie]

Haha Legal! Im with you there, no addictions very important! Ex before last was addicted/obsessed with porn and w****d on average five times a day, sometimes more, regardless of being in a relationship.. Not what a girl should know or want at all .

Own teeth I agree, though this may change when im 60 .

I dont mind a small beer belly, lets face it, most of the 40+ age population have one.

Personal hygiene very important . How on earth does a stinky men expect any one to fancy them!? ( maybe they dont care )

psychotic illness a No NO because they always forget to take the meds.

Having a job is a positive because you dont want them laying in your bed all day and poncing off you .

[LegalEagle-ish]

Lol, but all seemingly so hard to find in a 30/40 something guy who is also single!

I've given up.

I am now happy to become a mad cat lady!

[emc]

I agree with above from Daizie - I am actually divorced (and a mum) something pretty common in the late thirties and early forties I would have thought and I know there's a few like me around here (yes, really, in ED!) so where are the divorced men/divorced Dads! Do they all move away from East D 'cos it's too expensive???

[????]

I was a divorced man in my late 30s...to be avoided...settled down again in my 40s

[SteveT]

Most men want sex, not a lifetime commitment.

After they've suffered the indignity of a 'loaded against us divorce', why repeat that mistake when sex is readily available to most people with their own teeth, non-stinky, no psychotic illness etc.

Many modern western women are 'picky', strident, and demanding, so it's not surprising there is a shortage of takers when there is the danger of a repeat performance.

I am convinced that the law and the way it is administered against the male species, is succeeding in driving a wedge through the heart of matrimony.

If for example the law stated 'you can only take from the wreckage what you put in' would marriage be such an attractive proposition to the female?

I must point out that I am not a misogynist, I think many women are lovely, delightful, sunny creatures, and have lots of ex-girlfriends who are still happy to talk to me, but I only have one ex-wife.......