AM had a traumatic experience with her daughter and she came onto the forum for advice. Next up, along came you with your insensitive post ready to have a good laugh at her expense. Now you follow up with a half-cocked and inflamatory argument that does not excuse your earlier crassness. The worst of it is that I know for a fact that there are many many people in the area who are signed up to the forum but who are not prolific posters. Shall we assume therefore that they are all trolls? Because that will really bring new blood to the forum won't it? There's a time and a place for everything and there are many theads on the forum where you can have a good laugh. But when someone comes on here and asks for help, then it's not the time and it's not the place. And please don't play victim with your imagined "lynch mob" as it is your own words that you're being held accountable for.