I don't think you will find new friends by asking randomly on here. Nobody knows your age, gender, interests or anything about you. All we know is that you live in Dulwich and are sadly recently bereaved. As has been suggested, a good way to make friends is by joining a group of people who have the same interests as you. Is there any reason why you don't want to do that? Also, would it not be easier to do if you got some support first to help you cope with the bereavement? Several people (ETA on your other thread) have suggested ways to do that. Hugs.