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pommie Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > chillychap > > get in touch with deptforddiva about these kittens xxxxxx I don't think they're likely to still be where they were seen at 4am the other morning, sadly.

Pinky, had you considered not seeing him for a bit to see if that brings up any other feelings for you?

*Bob* Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Sue Wrote: > > > I have had dealings with liars - luckily in a > > different context > > > Tin hats on people - we're going back in for more. xxxxxx No we're not.

Pinky82 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > My feelings are that I have no trust in him at > all, therefore there is no need to carry on the > relationship, xxxxxxx Is there any reason why you are not trusting your own feelings in this? I have had dealings with liars - luckily in a different context - and, like you, it got to the point where I started checking out what they were saying, and finding clear evidence that it wasn't true. Yes there are obviously psychological reasons why he is doing this, an illness if you like to label it as that, but if after so long with him he is still doing it, then I do wonder why you want to stay with him given your gut feelings. Sometimes we can be deeply in love with somebody but a relationship with them just isn't going to work. ETA: And turning things around to make any issues your fault rather than his is also classic.

Well, it's certainly more lyrical than the late lamented "Rim World", a hat shop also on Walworth Road. It's still there, but now known as "Hat World". Bus journeys in that direction are much the poorer :))

People who have been living in ED as long as me (twenty years on and off) and around the Crystal Palace Road area may remember that fireworks used to be let off at midnight every week - I think it was on a Saturday night. I never found out where they were coming from, and there wasn't an ED Forum in those days. I assumed it was from one of the local pubs. So think yourselves lucky, people, that it's now only a relatively few nights a year :)

Plus staff Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Middle class or working class, who cares. Class a > state of mind. It is not ebout your background but > where are you going in life Today I may feel like > a middle class person, tomorrow I may feel like > being a working class person. Today I will shop in > iceland tomorrow I will shop in William Rose > butchers, Tomorrow I can shop in cheap old Peckham > Tomorrow I will shop in Toff Posh dulwich What > class am I ? xxxxxxx Show us your accent and we'll tell you :)) Only joking (a bit).

Go on Go on Go on Go on etc ETA: Actually I'm getting slightly worried about my kneecaps too. Beginning to think being "out" on the forum isn't that great an idea :))

Surely it must be a candelabra with only one candle?! ETA:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candelabra

What did Kelvin say about it? The other sellers are only just over the road from where he usually stands.

R&A Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > > or whether i've just been too suspicious? xxxxxx He was asking for money late at night for a therapy he didn't know how to spell? An alternative to chemo? Not too suspicious, no ..... What was the money supposed to be for, exactly? ETA: If you can be bothered, maybe report this to the police?

the-e-dealer Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > titch juicy Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > relax people- it's a couple of times a year > > maximum > > I'm not that bothered but it is several days not a > couple! Unless you are hard of hearing. xxxxxxxx I thought you were rather keen on fireworks, e-dealer? You banged on about their cancellation enough :))

If everybody cleared up litter in the area immediately around where they lived, there would be rather less of a problem, wouldn't there? Of course others shouldn't drop it in the first place, but it doesn't take a moment to pick it up and put it in the nearest bin. Though I must admit my belief in this practice was somewhat shaken the other week when I picked up a paper bag intending to put it in a bin, only to find that it contained dog turds - bad enough, but it had been raining, and .... afraid in that case I threw it rather hastily into the gutter. The thing is, though - who would be bothered enough to put the turds into a paper bag in the first place, only to then drop it on the pavement? Weird.

Sorry, returning to hedgehogs - some very sweet pics on the British Hedgehog Preservation Society's Facebook page! http://www.facebook.com/pages/British-Hedgehog-Preservation-Society/273196350835 Oops, just realised the ED hedgehog discussion wasn't on this thread, apologies.

Well said, garnwba

Edited: Thanks - that's now much easier to read, you're a star :)

Chillaxed Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > If I'm visiting the DM website, I always keep > another window open with porn running in case my > wife walks in. xxxxxx :)) :)) :))

the-e-dealer Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > we also found a pile of phonographic literature xxxxx With pictures of old wind-up gramophones? :))

:)) :)) :))

Otta Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Occasionally look at a story online when it comes > up in a google search, but wouldn't ever buy it! xxxxxxx Same here.

I had posted agreeing with Otta's point about elderly drivers, then belatedly realised it was not an appropriate thread to be expanding on that. Sorry. Can't begin to imagine what this must be like for all involved.

mrure Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > There has been a female selling Big Issue outside > Co-op for many years now. xxxxxx There has, but it hasn't always been the same person.

Yesterday (during the day) I saw a dead sparrow lying on the pavement in Ulverscroft Road. It didn't have any obvious signs of injury. It seemed to be quite young, though it was hard to tell. It's quite unusual to see dead birds around at all, so I wonder if anybody can shed any light as to what might have happened? The flies were beginning to gather :(

trevnsarah Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Saw a couple of buzzards a > few weeks back and always curious why there arent > more birds of prey (buzzards etc) given the amount > of vermin etc xxxxxxxx Maybe they're finding better pickings elsewhere? I had a bird of prey in my tiny garden a few years ago. It was actually quite scary because it was so large in relation to the size of the garden. I used to get a load of starlings coming down to my bird feeders, and it had one in its claws. The poor starling was making the most terrible noise. I was going to go out and try to rescue the starling, but thought better of it when I realised what a large beak and claws might do to me, never mind the starling :))

StraferJack Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > "Sounds like they could do with a mirror there or > something, particularly as it's near the school." > > Or drivers who break the law could face stronger > deterrent xxxxxxx Yes but unless there's a camera at the crossing, how's that going to work? Even if someone got the guy's number, which in the heat of the moment and worrying about your kids is going to be the last thing on your mind, it's one person's word against another's unless there's proof, surely?