I am happily a couple, but before I wasn't, I used Love and Friends and Guardian Soulmates and met some nice men on both of them :) And I know several people who are in LTRs as a result of using one or the other, including my sister. But I do think you have to meet up PDQ, because you can get a very wrong impression of people from emails :)) Edited to add: Don't know if it still does, but Love and Friends had a forum which was quite fun, I met some people I'm still in touch with from that, both men and women.