Went swimming in Bromley at the weekend, popped into the shopping mall and on the first floor was a park stylee wooden bench with brass plaque 'in loving memory of xxx xxxxxx who loved to shop' On the subject of whether roadside memorials are a reminder or a distraction, I saw a woman studying the cards etc currently on East Dulwich road but she carried on looking over at them as she walked into the road straight in front of an oncoming bus, luckily the driver braked hard in time