Dulwich Born And Bred

Three actually, yours, theirs and the middle/truth. Since people can view one thing in completely different ways.

FelicityNormal Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I doubt there *is* any PM (re Bob) Heidi. I know, I was being sarcastic, my sense of humour always was too dry for people to get:(

*Bob* Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Sorry Heidi and Chav - I can only tell certain > people. > > I'm sure you understand. No worries, it is like my childhood days, I always got left out!:( Chav? I didn't know Chav posted on this thread.

Don't I get a PM Bob?!

The majority of the business owners in Dulwich are lovely, I have known most of them since childhood and they make my whole shopping experience lovely. You only need to worry if you PERSONALLY are being hassled. I am sure Felicity has managed to get all the info she needs and thus the thread has been useful and helped her to collect her evidences.

I'd suggest you keep all evidence of the PMs and texts and go to the police with it. His behaviour is really not acceptable.

That is nice, Quids can dish it out but cannot take it , why does that not surprise me? but then he was bloody rude to me even though I didn't make that comment. Don't worry Sean, everyone knows it is not you, you are too lovely for that!

Asset Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > snappy comeback there Heidi. Thank you, you make it easy!

frump Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > "some of you lot are so anal it is unbelievable" > nice choice of words for this particular thread. > I'm sure the "lothario" is really getting hot > under the collar now...stop encouraging him Read the thread, the lothario is nothing to do with me.

Asset Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > well then you should know better than to > stereotype or make insidious comments. Anyway who > said mixed race/black/anything people have a right > to make rascist comments? > Cripes, so now there are several businesses on LL > that want nothing more than to cheapen the women > who patronise them. I may start shopping in > Bromley. Oh get over yourself!

LegalEagle-ish Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Yeh i agree, the 'exotic' men bit was a bit wrong > - I would have preferred a full description but I > think that was the best the poster could think of > to describe the guy as not a white guy I reckon, > after everyone started screaming libel at her. > > Bit of a crap description - but the guy's > behaviour is still wrong and women should be > warned, in my opinion. They didn't scream libel at me because I didn't start this post or encounter the guy with the STD. I said 'exotic' because of all them despite not being white still come from different countries so I can't say Iranian, Indian, etc because I am not sure exactly where they all come from but they are not English. And if I get taken to court and you all start screaming libel at me, bring it on! I have facts and lots of women who have endured it who can clarify it. At the end of the day I did not start this post , I was talking about my experiences in that there are a few businesses I do avoid because of being hassled, that is my way of dealing with it, I just don't go to the places where they are. Full stop.

I am exotic myself! FFS! Well not exotic in that I was not born here, but I am mixed race, I am so sorry that the men who hassled myself and my friends/family are not British born! Seriously, some of you lot are so anal it is unbelievable. I hope you don't encounter being made to feel really cheap and then have people on the forum jump on you for how you feel and for joining in a thread by stating you have encountered a few pervs! As I said I didn't go out with any of them, dated any of them, or start this post, I don't know the person in question who is at the centre of the allegations but I do know a few businesses with staff/owners in Dulwich that hassle women, FACT! I can't change that piece of truth. Edited because I made so many typos.

???? Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Sorry for being pissed off about being suggested > as a pox ridden, two timing, lothario by someone i > don't know Heidi...very unreasonable of me Can I just point out again that it was NOT me who suggested you were in any way shape or form the lothario so why you are being insulting to me I do not know!:-S

Mikecg Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Only joking Heidihi. I have had the most fun ever > on this thread, I have never enjoyed myself so > much on a forum in my life. I see it as a catalyst > for my humour, and I know there are lots of decent > people in this town, but there are sculking mental > cases as well. > > I cant help it, it's a condition. I know, I enjoy your posts Mikecg! I love the humour on here. (Ignoring Quids because that is what you do to rude people who become insulting and throw hissy fits)

Mikecg Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Heidihi my mother used to say only trust your > pocket. My mother said life is rubbish and then you die. She doesn't tell me to watch my own pocket because she thinks the Government does a good job of that for us.

Mikecg Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Heidihi wrote, > I rarely post in the Lounge, I should be in the > family room not in here! > snip > Women all over, Candy cane castles and fluffy > white kittens. Sadly not, just a pregnant lady buying some goods from the family room and offering some advice on kids since I am a nanny also. Not into candy canes and fluffy kittens, more like kick boxing and and yorkie bars ( they are not for girls!).

???? Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Oh, so that's alright is it Heidi?...I'm sure her > Lothario just gets excited too.......I'm a happily > married man and could do without her pathetic > excitement and speculation. Yes,I'd get back to > the family room. Hey, don't start on me! I didn't accuse you of being a perv! I can see BOTH your sides and I am allowed to have an opinion, goodness knows you have one too as do the majority of people in Dulwich!

Can I clarify that most of the gentlemen living in Dulwich are indeed lovely gentlemen, it is just the selected few 'exotic' men who work etc in Dulwich that ruin it for us naive innocent fresh faced sweet lovely Dulwich ladies? To think I was born in Dulwich Hospital and Dulwich used to be SOOOO lovely...now I have to avoid certain shops in order to avoid some ogling pervs. I miss the Dulwich of old! But then I miss Wham Bars and spring onion walkers crisps also. Nothing stays the same.

???? Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Well she was quite happy to suggest it was > possibly me earlier, scroll up.......so > discreation apart from people who aren't anything > to do her accusations...yup, that's integrity She just got excited because you was giving her a bit of a tough time hence she said it was you since you was giving her a hard time, I am sure in hindsight she realised she should not have jumped the gun. Gosh, I rarely post in the Lounge, I should be in the family room not in here!

???? Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Yeah, apart from when she suggested it was > me...... > > > she's a troll or damaged...where's the sisterhood > in saying "ooooh there's a dangerous man in the > hood but I'm not telling you who it is"... > > > laughing at the false sisters crap Maybe on an open forum she wont reveal it, but ask nicely in a private way..hint hint and she might reveal?

Mikecg Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Err! it's a bloke thing. Oh, right, I am born and bred in Dulwich, I am pretty wet behind the ears (naive!) I didn't get it either Gen17! Men! They are strange!

Last year my best friends and myself went to a restaurant in Lewisham, they all have babies, and one of them changed her daughters' nappy on the seat and was going to leave the nappy there! She got a right telling off from all of us! We were absolutely shocked that she would do that and think that it is ok, but I must admit she is pretty out of touch with reality! Got to say there were no baby changing toilets but she could have done it on her knees or something and attempting to leave the nappy behind was just taking the pee! I am pleased to say that she is much better behaved in public now!

Mikecg Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Hidehi, > > It's the way of the world. > > Remember 9 months getting out and the rest of your > life trying to get back in. I don't want to go back in, I just want to live on a deserted island with all the people I like , that would include Wentworth Miller, Jonathan Meyers and Jensen Ackles and a lifetime of decent wine....is that too much to ask for?

Just watch out for me, come August I will be having one of those big bright prams! I apologise for anyones' ankles I might crash into, but got to do some posing with the pram!:)) and I PROMISE not to stop the pram in the middle of the pavement to chat about flexi tots nappies with my friend!

I can confirm she is NOT a troll and I know who the person she is referring to is because she has told me although I have never met the man because I do not go in that place, and I can confirm there are other pervy businessmen and staff in Dulwich who I have encountered personally and I am not a troll but naturally I am not emotionally involved with ANY of them and I have never dated ANY of them, I just think they should learn to stop hassling us womanfolks.