Dulwich Born And Bred

Can I clarify that most of the gentlemen living in Dulwich are indeed lovely gentlemen, it is just the selected few 'exotic' men who work etc in Dulwich that ruin it for us naive innocent fresh faced sweet lovely Dulwich ladies? To think I was born in Dulwich Hospital and Dulwich used to be SOOOO lovely...now I have to avoid certain shops in order to avoid some ogling pervs. I miss the Dulwich of old! But then I miss Wham Bars and spring onion walkers crisps also. Nothing stays the same.

???? Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Well she was quite happy to suggest it was > possibly me earlier, scroll up.......so > discreation apart from people who aren't anything > to do her accusations...yup, that's integrity She just got excited because you was giving her a bit of a tough time hence she said it was you since you was giving her a hard time, I am sure in hindsight she realised she should not have jumped the gun. Gosh, I rarely post in the Lounge, I should be in the family room not in here!

???? Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Yeah, apart from when she suggested it was > me...... > > > she's a troll or damaged...where's the sisterhood > in saying "ooooh there's a dangerous man in the > hood but I'm not telling you who it is"... > > > laughing at the false sisters crap Maybe on an open forum she wont reveal it, but ask nicely in a private way..hint hint and she might reveal?

Mikecg Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Err! it's a bloke thing. Oh, right, I am born and bred in Dulwich, I am pretty wet behind the ears (naive!) I didn't get it either Gen17! Men! They are strange!

Last year my best friends and myself went to a restaurant in Lewisham, they all have babies, and one of them changed her daughters' nappy on the seat and was going to leave the nappy there! She got a right telling off from all of us! We were absolutely shocked that she would do that and think that it is ok, but I must admit she is pretty out of touch with reality! Got to say there were no baby changing toilets but she could have done it on her knees or something and attempting to leave the nappy behind was just taking the pee! I am pleased to say that she is much better behaved in public now!

Mikecg Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Hidehi, > > It's the way of the world. > > Remember 9 months getting out and the rest of your > life trying to get back in. I don't want to go back in, I just want to live on a deserted island with all the people I like , that would include Wentworth Miller, Jonathan Meyers and Jensen Ackles and a lifetime of decent wine....is that too much to ask for?

Just watch out for me, come August I will be having one of those big bright prams! I apologise for anyones' ankles I might crash into, but got to do some posing with the pram!:)) and I PROMISE not to stop the pram in the middle of the pavement to chat about flexi tots nappies with my friend!

I can confirm she is NOT a troll and I know who the person she is referring to is because she has told me although I have never met the man because I do not go in that place, and I can confirm there are other pervy businessmen and staff in Dulwich who I have encountered personally and I am not a troll but naturally I am not emotionally involved with ANY of them and I have never dated ANY of them, I just think they should learn to stop hassling us womanfolks.

HonaloochieB Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Moos Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > > > But I never got chatted up much even > pre-Moosling, > > I'm too scary. Sigh... > > Oh Moos, don't be upset, I can't bear it. > Rest assured if you were a customer in a shop I > owned, I'd have given you a dose of the clap for > sure. > Now don't you be lettin' that Flick and PostModern > be gettin' all up in your face thinkin' they're > all that. > You go girl. PMSL! That gave me a good old belly laugh! Thanks!

jaybee82 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Maybe I digressed from the 'Dulwich Deviant' > slightly. > > I didnt mean hassle just anyone, clearly there is > a time and place. All I'm saying is if the bloke > seems normal and just engages in a bit of banter > with you, how can that be considered being creepy? > I might be lambasted for saying it, but I dont see > any harm in it at all. > > Having said that, I wouldn't do it so I guess that > speaks volumes. I have no problems with that, I am usually very poite and talk to everyone who talks to me, and I hope if they did ask me out and I refused they would not take it personally instead of trying to wear me down and talk me into going out with them! ( yes, happens to lots of women sadly!). Most women would be flattered to be chatted up and I do think it would be good if more men took control and asked ladies out but as I said, time and place and also the ones who don't give up should learn to take the hint and move on. I just need someone I actually LIKE and FANCY to ask me out instead of old pervs, rude boys and married men!

jaybee82 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Are you biffy? Sorry I'm going to bite all over > this. So tell me, how would a bloke go about > getting your number? Sounds very tough indeed. > > What on earth is the world coming to?! Jay, I think it would help if he were actually SINGLE and wanted to get to know the lady other than just having sex ( because he is married) to get most girls numbers, there are ways of going about it. I am sure most of us do not mind being chatted up but there are ways of doing it. With places likes shops, restaurants etc you have to make sure that the person is interested in you before jumping in and asking for a number and then constantly hassle the person everytime they have to enter the establishment otherwise you risk losing a customer. Usually it is pretty obvious if two people have an attraction for each other.

Ted Max Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I'm just trying to wrap all this up in a dossier > for master Sam Masters (ace reporter) at the SLP. > There are two lotharios that own businesses on > Lordship Lane. One of them has a dose, and has > passed it on to at least one acquaintance of > FlickNormal. One of them gave Postmodern a real > good time and then had a pop at her sister; this > may or may not be the same guy who has the dose, > but he is definitely married with kids and > pretends he isn't until he is waxing his moustache > in post-coital triumph. One of them has been > posting on here, but not under the user name > "InfectedShagger". > > Is that about it? If I was investigations editor, > I'd be thinking honeytrap, covert filming, make > our excuses and leave. See if the Screws wants it > first to clear a bit of wedge, otherwise run it as > a DPS on Tuesday after the stabbing league tables. Fantastic!!>:D<

jaybee82 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > All I know is it was Kebab and Wines finest. Didnt > have it in my hand long enough to sample it. Ahh I LOVE the chicken kebab from there, much better than hisar mangal kebab.

jaybee82 Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > I'm sold with a fry-up to be honest. Was your kebab a chicken kebab?

KalamityKel Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > HeidiHi Wrote: > > Its a sad day in Dulwich when you have to > second > > guess someone who asks you out on a date! > > Is that not what you're meant to do? *shrugs* I don't go out with anyone who asks me out, they usually have motives or I don't fancy them! I ask my men out!:)) girl power!

HonaloochieB Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > HeidiHi Wrote: > -------------------------------------------------- > ----- > Ahh, I have been to the Bishop a fair few times > > and no one has disrespected me there, I expect > > them to because they are usually drunk, I don't > > expect that from a staff or businessman. > > I know what you mean HH, if I had a pound for > every time Barry from the Barry off-licence in > Barry Road offered to carry my shopping home for > me, well I'd be a good deal better off. I can tell > you. > If it wasn't for the free beer, I'd take my > business elsewhere. > Oh, and if you run up a slate make sure you can > pay it. With money. > I won't forget Xmas 2005 in a hurry. HAHAHAHA! I like Barry , he is really lovely, and he never flirts with me, but one of his locals did and he is REALLY OLD, and I am only young. (whimper).

Cassius Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Being chatted up and/or flirted with has not given > anyone a STD as far as I know. Do women have sex > with a man just because he smiles at her in a > shop? *sighs - wasn't like that when I was a gel* Flick was just saying not only is he is married and has kids, but to also be careful because he has an STD, so she is not saying it is his fault the girl has an STD because it takes two to do the horizontal dance but expressing the fact that be careful because he is misleading girls into believing he is single and interested in them and all he wants is to get his leg over and is not fussed about the use of a condom either! Most girls if they fancy someone is going to be pretty flattered to be asked out by the object of their desires and will find no reason to believe he is married if he is stating he is single and up for a relationship. Its a sad day in Dulwich when you have to second guess someone who asks you out on a date!

Cassius Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Were any of these women raped? Did any of these > women ask if the man was married? Did any of them > insist on using a condom as obviously they did not > know this man very well? If a woman shags a man > about which she knows nothing or little, without > using a condom, then she is taking a risk with her > sexual health. 6 of one and half dozen of the > other IMO. That is the issue here, they insist they are single but of course being as Dulwich is a closed knitted community most of us know via other shopkeepers/locals/friends/family etc that this is not the case and they are in fact married and have kids, and it makes it worse when you find out not only have they chatted you up but also your family members and friends! And I also dislike it when I cannot pop to a local shop because they think it is ok to flirt, well it is not! I just want to buy my goods and go and not be asked for my number, if I have a man etc. Ahh, I have been to the Bishop a fair few times and no one has disrespected me there, I expect them to because they are usually drunk, I don't expect that from a staff or businessman.

Dulwich has many people working here with a lot of love to share!:)) I try to avoid the majority of the places that they spread their big love!

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Oh no, that means my driving lesson will be cancelled AGAIN! It was cancelled Monday and today. Rebooked for Monday. Luckily my scan can go ahead this afternoon since my stairs are clear and my midwife appointment is on Saturday morning, hopefully the sleet on Friday won't be too bad that I will have to cancel my saturday appointment. This weather is great if you don't have to do anything but a bit of a pain if things are constantly cancelled and you have to get out and about. Beside it is does not look too pretty with slush and rain!

Finally got post today, yay!

The Teddy bear is in Daily Mail also.

Nothing for me or my neighbours on Lordship lane for three days.

Just be very very careful out there, a huge chunk of ice/snow just dropped off my roof onto the neighbours roof and then onto the ground! Was quite scary because it made such a loud noise that the people at the bus stop across the road were looking to see where the noise came from! I am so glad I was not out there putting the recycle things into the bins, I'll think I'll stay indoors! My pavement is a death trap, lots and lots of black ice and on the road which everyone crosses to get to the bus stop. I don't have salt or sand:(