Sillywoman you have my sympathy. The sad thing is, given my experience of the police, it seems pretty familiar. On one occasion I had my wallet stolen and money fraudulently withdrawn from my bank account. Was given conflicting information about what to do from different police officers. When I eventually got to see someone his response was "How do I know you haven't just staged the theft with a friend of yours and pocketed the money?" Talk about complete lack of empathy and total disinterest in doing their job. For me persistence is key. Keep hassling them - in the end they will want to take action just to get you off their back! Threaten to take the matter further. If all else fails try your local MP.