"To be fair, any thread which starts by describing buying a couple of outfits as "exhausting", was always bound to end in farce. The involvement of UDT has at least made it strangely entertaining." That is what Jeremy said, and I'm sorry GG, but if that was enough to make someone feel bullied and leave, then IMO that is way over sensetive. I do however agree that it's a shame her innocent request for advise was hijacked like it was, but this is a public forum used by a variety of people, and I think perhaps she would have been better of using the faqmily room, 99% of which is used by busy mums who may well have had the answer she was after. Alternatively, a fashion forum or something. As I say, sad that she felt the need to leave, but my sympathy is limited, there are far worse things that can happen than a few people messing about on an internet forum.