Hi It seems out protective outer force field, known as Bad Behaviour, occasionally does not like your ISP. What happens is it gets a list of naughty IP addresses from a server, those on the naughty list are ones that have been accused of sending out spam. You both have the same ISP, AOL, which tells us that someone has been using their AOL account to send spam and AOL have not dealt with them quickly enough and therefore one of the AOL servers has been put on the list. Unfortunately we cannot take down the force field to alleviate this problem for the two of you as it would open us up to attack from many others, Bad Behaviour is something that helps keep this forum spam free. So all we can do is wait, it is out of our hands but AOL will know how to remove their server from the blacklist. Sorry we cannot do any more to help.